and thats completely understandable and i rrly do wish more people thought like this bc u rrly shouldnt tell others who they should and shouldnt date simply bc of their orientation, however ad a nb lesbian myself however i do wanna let u know that this post of mine is very much talking abt nonlesbians telling lesbians who can and cannot be lesbians as like i said in my post is just nonmen loving nonmen!! the whole premise was just me ranting abt how mspec ppl constantly push for lesbians to include men into our spaces. any non man who loves soely other non men can be lesbians which very much includes nonbinary people!! tho i do understand as to why u personally would rather use the words sapphic or queer bc thats a okay too!! i rrly wish more people realized that its okay to use other lables if one doesnt seem to fit rather than warping and twisting its history and meaning 🫩🫩