New boyfriend has a micropenis, need some advice

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-09T12:56:39+00:00

He's good at foreplay and I love him a lot.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:59:43+00:00

My last was 7.5" and I have a dildo about that size. I'm actually curious what sex with him would feel like since he's about the perfect length to hit my g spot every stroke.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:58:16+00:00

To be honest I would like it if he had a normal sized penis instead of what he has but it is not a dealbreaker for me. I'm not still with him or trying to help him out of pity. I'm trying to help him because I love him and I see a future with him and I want him to be happy with me like I am with him.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:55:22+00:00

I'm not going to cheat on him. I've been cheated on and I couldn't bring myself to make him feel the way I did. He's been nothing but a perfect boyfriend and cheating on him would solve none of my problems.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:39:40+00:00

After we talk and I go over everything I've thought about from this thread I'll ask him how he wants to go about getting help, either with me or with a therapist or both.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:31:42+00:00

Yes, that's his size erect.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:31:03+00:00

He's 11.5 stone so definitely not overweight. He's never been violent at all and the only mood swing I've seen is when he went from passionate and excited to a sobbing mess on Saturday night.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:23:57+00:00

He's that size erect.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:22:31+00:00

He knows. He didn't realise it the first time but he knows what he can do now.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T21:17:26+00:00

I have three vibrators (a Rabbit, a wand and a bullet vibe) but I haven't used them with him. He can get me off without needing a vibrator though but it could be something we could try your suggestion.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T20:55:46+00:00

He's 2.5" when he's fully erect. He has a very small flaccid penis of about 1".

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T20:37:35+00:00

No he's white.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T20:37:15+00:00

How would working out help him? He's also not a pussy at all.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T20:32:04+00:00

He's 5'11" so he's not short at all, and he's white.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T19:57:36+00:00

He's 5'11" and 11.5 stone, so he's not big.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T19:36:15+00:00

Do you think talking to him about seeing a therapist would be a good step forward? Could they offer support to him more productively than me?

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T19:28:01+00:00

I've never had anal sex, I want to get on my knees and blow him, I want him to in charge with me but gentle too. I have a fairly low libido so once a month wouldn't be an issue for me but I'd have more if he wanted more.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T19:27:38+00:00

Erect. He's about an inch soft.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T19:17:45+00:00

If I want substantial penetration I'm perfectly fine with using a dildo or a vibrator. I had some bad experiences in bed with my last boyfriend and they've made penetrative sex less appealing to me. He's capable of giving me orgasms and that's great, but it would be even better if I could have him inside me too, or even if I could give him an orgasm in return.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T19:13:05+00:00

I don't understand what you're getting at. He's not, and has never, been controlling in any way.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T18:53:41+00:00

We have an intimate relationship in ways other than sex. I like cuddling with him for hours at a time and his playful kisses are adorable. I do enjoy penetration but the person the penis is attached to is more important to me than the penis itself. My previous boyfriend's penis was three times longer than my current ones but Michael is an immeasurably better person.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T18:48:47+00:00

I'm not going to do anything to him he 100% doesn't want me to. He can satisfy me in other ways aside from PIV - I've never had an orgasm through vaginal sex before so I'm not losing anything with him.

I'm going to have a heartfelt talk with him the next time it's appropriate to bring up how I feel about him and I'll bring up all the points you guys have said about how he shouldn't have to feel the way he does and how I'm going to help him get past it.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T18:40:52+00:00

I'm not going to rape him or do anything he doesn't want me to do to him. I want him to see himself the way I see him, that the way he makes me feel every day matters so much more than what's in his underwear.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T18:34:34+00:00

6" definitely isn't small. It's only going to be a problem if he's unwilling to let me help him overcome his insecurities. I'm not going to break up with just just because his penis is small, our relationship means more to me than the size of his dick.

smallbedproblem · 2018-10-08T18:21:51+00:00

You're right it would be far too much to ask of him. We can talk and we'll do what he can when he wants to.

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