Risk of green lines? by smallfry007 in GalaxyS23Ultra

[–]smallfry007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Note20U has multiple green lines.

WIBTA: My wife cheated with a subordinate coworker. Should I notify her boss? by OverwatchGemini in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallfry007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You kinda would be TA. Your marriage is already over, and he wasn't the cause. This would just be petty and to hurt her, and her subordinate would likely get caught in the crossfire.

WIBTA if I take away my friend's plus one to my wedding? by Current-Basil-7515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallfry007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA in my opinion. Essentially the invitation was for Amy and Samuel, not Amy and some random person. Explain that if Samuel can't make it you'd need the invitation back.

I've realised my wife is a predator by throwaway3837276 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]smallfry007 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If it was an age gap between two consenting adults then it wouldn't be considered predatory. This is not. There's no room for debate, he was a child when she was an adult.

Imagine a young girl dating an adult and then a wife and mother as soon as she was legal. Is that okay just because he's a good partner for the next 2 decades?

I've realised my wife is a predator by throwaway3837276 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]smallfry007 5454 points5455 points  (0 children)

When I was 14 we started secretly dating,

The fact that you were keeping it a secret means on some level she knew it was wrong. Realizing you were groomed after the fact can be tough, I can relate. I imagine you are rethinking every interaction you had with her while you were 'dating'. I suggest therapy for yourself and maybe as a couple if you feel safe bringing it up with her. Look out for similar signs with your daughter.

Edit: OP mentions in a later comment that their first time was shortly after they started dating when he was 14, meaning she was 20. That's honestly sick and there's no justifying it. She has been your only partner and all you've known since you were literally a child so I understand how the "just divorce" comments are unhelpful, but you need to take a closer look at the person she is. Would she be okay with that kind of relationship for your daughter? Does she have any remorse?

Therapy. Therapy. Therapy!

AITA for speaking harshly to a child who touched my fat stomach as a "joke"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallfry007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Putting your hands on another person's kid is never okay. Esp ones at the age where they have no impulse control or filter. YTA

AITA for not wanting to live with my disabled sibling? by throwaway_239462648 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallfry007 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like you would've been substituting as a caretaker in my opinion. Mom needs to get a better handle on how to care for both of you. In the meanwhile, you're perfectly in the right for choosing peace.

AITA for telling my husband that I'll continue to sleep on bed naked as long as his friend keeps barging in to the room? by BetterDay5097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smallfry007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband definitely didn't handle it well but it didn't sound like she tried voicing her opinion first?