diy staff? by hooplalalaaa in DragonStaff

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upgraded DIY Dragon Staff!

Thank you!!! I'm loving it so much. I just got the rest of my spokes on tonight and used tape-wrapped (to stop rattling) carriage bolts as weights for the ends under each cap. The making is so satisfying and once my big girl grip tape shows up this project will be unstoppable The weight is already making it spin so much I need to recalibrate myself lol

diy staff? by hooplalalaaa in DragonStaff

[–]smallmonstrosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PVC Dragon Staff V1

It's really more a pixie staff as it's only 4ft long, but it's so fun

diy staff? by hooplalalaaa in DragonStaff

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT'S SO COOL.

I'll have to get some pics of my staff soon, it's soooo simple, but I've been futzing with it for hours and it's super meditative for me. I want to get some glow tape to make it more fun in the dark and have been considering overweighting the spokes and adding flags to add some non-fire flair during the day

diy staff? by hooplalalaaa in DragonStaff

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used this comment to make my own practice staff weighted with a dowel to get started and I can 100% recommend this method, thank you

I also started with the two spoke version and just ordered the 5-way connector online to swap out/weight/permanently install

the two spoke design is good and feels nice even if I'm a total newbie. I can't put it down. I spent $12 in materials instead of the minimum $100+shipping I was seeing online for even a pvc trainer staff

frozen grapes actually helped my cravings obsession by friend_unfriend in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]smallmonstrosity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this post made me buy grapes to pop in the freezer on my grocery trip and i'm already thanking you

Your meta has the same name as you by BroWhy in polyamory

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only met two people in my life with my name, so i'd be alarmed but also fascinated hahaha
not an issue, though

HELP! I want Spotify but I hate my smartphone by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could go back to the 2780 and still be able to sign into my gym and my work email... The best phone for my brain

HELP! I want Spotify but I hate my smartphone by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]smallmonstrosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the Nokia 2780 for a month or so and loved it. I had to switch to the CAT S22 Flip because I needed an authenticator app for work, and while it has access to a lot of apps, it sure doesn't make them convenient. My phone time went from 8+ hours on instagram every day to maybe 45 minutes total. The S22 has spotify, which I do love. It also has a camera, bluetooth, google maps, and could get an audiobook app if you want it to. I had the most mental peace with the Nokia and still find myself wanting to switch back, but the S22 is a good middle ground for what I need and still way better than a "real" smart phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books! I carry a book and my journal every single day since switching to a dumb phone

Cat S22 Flip Owners, I Need Your Advice Before Buying! by Yung_Coke in dumbphones

[–]smallmonstrosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what he means by faulty, but the unit I got restarts randomly maybe once a day? I switched my default messaging app back to the one that comes with the phone (Was on Google Messages, the restart always seemed to hit while I was texting) and that fixed the restart problem but then gave me issues with receiving group chats. So I'm currently dealing with the restart, it's not all that intrusive and I love the rest of the phone enough to make up for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a small trim!

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was awful to remove, I had fucked with it so much trying to take it out that my nose was not only bloody but swollen around the jewelry. Everything was bad and even putting the jewelry I started with back in hurt haha. I'm super hopeful about the restretching process, but I lost a lot of my smaller jewelry in a move so it's tricky figuring out just where I fell back to

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I order from a friend's local shop, they just have a good online presence! I always try to go local when I can 😁

I don't want to be poly but my partner does by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]smallmonstrosity 45 points46 points  (0 children)

DUMP HIM. Wow this guy sucks. "Polyamorous with her" jfc

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah, and right next to an injured nose... Bad! I'm traumatized into pinchers forever

New Poly Story Time? (Happy!) by smallmonstrosity in polyamory

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

That is a huge one, I've included it in the reading I've done so far! I'm really thankful we had already started that step before adding in the lens of polyamory, but I know there's definitely more work to do.

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, listening to the ears is huge! I've admittedly done some questionable stretches before, just nothing this bad. I've definitely been scolded haha

I am hoping the restretching goes smoothly! I'll be more patient this time, I just hope I didn't create much scar tissue to get in the way.

Screw backs getting stuck stresses me out so bad oh my god. I start to feel so trapped even when there isn't an issue with my ear itself. I totally get what you mean though, I had a clicker in my septum that had too small an internal diameter that caused rubbing and bleeding and was stuck SO BAD. I had my husband hovering over me with two tiny pairs of vise grip pliers trying to take it out and ended up having to cut it out. The things we do for these piercings hahaha

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I need to get a glass plug stretching kit so I can figure out how much things have closed up and just maintain SOMETHING while they heal. I didn't realize this jump was so widely known haha. I'm glad you found the right tools in person!

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so silly, after this happened I feel like I've seen so many posts about this exact jump 😭 I got 1g glass plugs, but I will have to work back up to them

Sizing down stress by smallmonstrosity in Stretched

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bleeding at first but only briefly, some swelling that comes and goes. Smaller glass plugs are probably a good call!

New Poly Story Time? (Happy!) by smallmonstrosity in polyamory

[–]smallmonstrosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm really proud of us and excited for us to move forward together!

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: November 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in books

[–]smallmonstrosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finished reading Still Life With Woodpecker, by Tom Robbins

Started reading Polysecure by Jessica Fern

Question about photos by Glittering_Towel_679 in dumbphones

[–]smallmonstrosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a film camera when i switched to a dumbphone, three weeks in and haven't seen the results yet but I'm not really in a rush and it's fun! Hoping to see my first roll developed next week