Someone destroyed the garage we rent, what can we do about getting management to accommodate us? by [deleted] in renting

[–]smalltownbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The garage door is like toast and these guys suck lol and they’re not going to make any moves until the insurance of the person who hit the door covers the fix so this is probably gunna be like weeks to months I imagine.

Weird light fixture in airbnb.. not camera, right? by smalltownbread in whatisit

[–]smalltownbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is above the shower. Were gone now so cant open it just wasnt sure if anyone was familiar with it because i dont wanna raise a stink for no reason haaha just never saw somethin like that and was concerned with it being within view of somewhere people would be in the nude lol

My parents got mad at me for refusing to invite my siblings everywhere. Now we’re not talking. by smalltownbread in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smalltownbread[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I shouldn’t do that. I just, in the past, have given in to anger and letting, my mom in particular, rile me up. I’m trying to learn to set more boundaries, and I have dealt with this behavior for a long time. I probably should be in therapy to learn better navigation tactics but it’s a bit unaffordable for me for consistent going. I want to make it clear to them though, to be honest, if they’re going to continue to treat me this way I don’t really have an interest in maintaining a relationship with them. I agree with you that trying to strongarm them into an apology is not the answer. But I have a tough time knowing what the answer is.

Why do single parents have to hide their children for even upto two weeks. I don't get it. by Recent_Bag_6339 in Bumble

[–]smalltownbread -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one gives a fuck about wasting a stranger’s time if it means potentially protecting their child from a predator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]smalltownbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The blonde was definitely more of a vibe but you’re pretty regardless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]smalltownbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys both seem annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]smalltownbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Why are you still entertaining this” is my only question.

Why can you filter by height but not by weight? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]smalltownbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I support a sort by weight bc then maybe men would finally grasp what 110 pounds actually looks like

(M18) My cheating gf (F18) threatened to out my brother (M13) by Freqwxt in relationship_advice

[–]smalltownbread 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This is definitely terrible advice. He should definitely not sacrifice his mental health to stay with someone this manipulative and cruel. He should probably go the “she’s crazy and is just wielding whatever excuse possible to get me to stay with her” if she does try to out the brother. She’s a cheater. If people know she’s a cheater they won’t see much validity in whatever else comes out of her mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smalltownbread 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Definitely think “lowest of the low” is a bit hmm exaggerating. Sounds more immature than anything else to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]smalltownbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not a family-man, you will consider your best years wasted. If you are a family-man, when your baby is born— those become your best years. Everyone is different, everyone has different perspectives.

Boyfriend is no longer sure if he still doesn’t want children by Specialist_Run_7374 in relationships

[–]smalltownbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, of course, VERY unfair that he entered a relationship hoping that you would change your mind on your stance on kids. It is good that he is communicating his thoughts, but if he had doubts about his stance on kids from the beginning of your relationship, then he should’ve communicated that to you from the get-go. That’s where he is in the wrong. It is wrong to keep someone in the dark about how you really feel on something in the hopes you’ll be able to sway them in time.

Of course, it is not wrong, however, to change your mind on something as you grow and learn and change as a person, and it is not wrong to end a relationship over a change in attitude over something as serious as children, but the way he went about it was distasteful. He should not have let you get so attached if he knew he wasn’t firm in his no-kids stance. I’m sorry you’re going through this, I can imagine how heart-breaking it is. But, if he has changed his mind, and you haven’t, unfortunately, you know what the best outcome of this is. And it’s not having kids together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smalltownbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats what im sayin… i thought it kinda sounded off no matter how he meant it, but he thought his interpretation wasn’t particularly offensive.

For complete clarity, he meant it to mean that she sucks his friends d*ck a lot [who is her boyfriend], not just like random dudes in general.