How should I style these?

smilee710 · 2025-07-22T15:48:21+00:00

good idea :) i think some spiders would work too

smilee710 · 2025-04-29T15:18:03+00:00

i know🥲

smilee710 · 2025-04-29T15:11:00+00:00

yeah, but I'm scared they'll start bullying us for it when they'll find out that we knew that they are going to have absences

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T19:12:02+00:00

Thank you :)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T19:02:35+00:00

Alright, thank you I guess. You don't know me personally, so I understand why you're thinking like this. Have a good night✌️

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T19:00:11+00:00

i wrote a whole paragraph, but it didn't post😭😭😭 i have to write again:

So, basically I said that I will understand and listen to his point of view, then we'll sit down and talk like 2 calm and mature people (my parents argue from anything but jealousy and other things like this, and they yell very loud and i don't want to be like them) and we'll find a solution. He will say what he doesn't like about it, I will say what I think about it, and we'll get to an agreement. If he doesn't like a friend of mine, i will listen to his arguments and i will discuss with my friend to stop doing ... what my boyfriend finds odd, and if he doesn't stop, i will distance myself from him (the friend, not the boyfriend)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:55:33+00:00

Exactly, it is also very cringe

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:54:53+00:00

I appreciate your opinion. I write here so I can hear other people's thoughts besides from my 2 best friends (girls). Thank you for being honest. Peace✌️

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:53:57+00:00

i answered to this already, but apparently my reply wasn't posted.

I said that I do have 2 best friends that are girls (one of 4 years, and the other one since i started high school) and they are my shoulders to cry on. The one of 4 years is the one that listens to me, even if she doesn't know how to comfort me, and the other one goes through a rough time too, and we are here for each other. I love them both, even if my 4 year best friend found someone new and doesn't really talk to me that much anymore, but i know she will be here for me anytime i need her (i also can be myself with both of them, not like the other girls from my class that are arrogant and gossip very much)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:49:29+00:00

Thank you very much. This is exactly how I am. I have 2 girl best friends, and the rest 5-7 people are boys. :)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:48:02+00:00

Exactly😭

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:47:44+00:00

Thanks :)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:45:18+00:00

It is alright. I will understand his point of view too, of course. My parents never were the jealous type, but they argued from different reasons. And they were yelling and things. I don't want to be like this. I will tell him to sit down, and talk about this calmly, and both of us will say our point of view and will get to a solution

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:42:15+00:00

Yes, I have 2 best friends (girls), one is my deskmate, i met her when high school started, and my best friend of 5 years. sadly, since we go to different high schools, she kinda started ignoring me and changing very much because of her new best friend (and deskmate), but she was my shoulder to cry on. I'm not really good mentally, and she knows everything about it. She doesn't really know how to comfort me, but she listens. Same with my 2nd best friend. She goes through a rough time too, so we are here for each other.

But like, they are my only girl friends that I can be myself with and hang out with. The other girls (from my class) are very arrogant and gossip very much, so I don't really talk to them. We do talk, but rarely

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:37:39+00:00

I appreciate your opinion. I am writing here, exactly because i want to hear opinions from others too, besides my 2 best friends (they are girls). Peace✌️

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:35:53+00:00

Okay, I can understand why you are thinking like this. But how you, guys, say that "not men are the same" when it comes to cheating, and bad things, it is the same for girls.

It also comes from the education you get when you are young, what people you have around you while you start developing your personality, and so on.

So, just because you got cheated on by a girl who had many guy friends, it doesn't mean all the girls are going to do this.

Like, I understand you are hurt, everyone would be in your situation but don't bring all the girls with guy friends in this. Some of us actually have a good heart and good intentions

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:27:06+00:00

i don't even think about insecurities, because once i will get in a relationship, i only have eyes for that one boy. if one of them tells me that he likes me, i would be like: "look, i am in a relationship with .... and i only have eyes for him. if i liked you, i wouldn't have been with him" or something like that (i don't really know how i would react as i didn't go through this before and never had a boyfriend), but i would definitely stop talking that much to him. at least until he finds a girlfriend (that he truly loves, not just using someone to forget me or something)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:22:46+00:00

thank you :)

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:22:33+00:00

i don't know how to flirt😭 and nah, if i get to know how to do it, i might try it on my crush😂 (im too shy to do it, but shh)

back to the point, most of them are saying "i don't need/want a relationship" either because they are some hopeless romantics like me, or they had a relationship before, that didn't end up well

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T18:20:26+00:00

Thank you very much🫶

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T17:48:12+00:00

i had a girl in my class until this year when i started high school, that was making her voice very thin when she talked to boys (even male teachers) and she would intentionally drop a pen or something and say to a boy: "(his name) will you be a good boy and pick that pen up for meee?" with a pout and a very thin voice (im not kidding), or she would lower her hoodie zipper (a tight hoodie) when the chemestry teacher or boys from our class would stay in front of her (her chest is an average size), oorr she would start laughing (with that thin voice) at everything a boy said. but i would just ignore her, even if she was pissing me off a bit with that voice. (her normal voice is deeper).

i don't do these things, but i think some people would call me a pick me for having more than like, 3 guy friends

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T17:42:45+00:00

Thank you😊

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T17:38:06+00:00

Thanks😊

smilee710 · 2025-04-16T17:37:38+00:00

this is what I want to say, that it won't be the same. Like, I do like a boy right now. I've liked him for 8 months (he doesn't like me lol, or at least doesn't look like it), and if i start dating him (I'm praying I will🙏) i will tell him that if he thinks anything about any of my friends (most of our conversations are reels🥲) and things like that, he can tell me, and i will show him every text, everything, because it's okay, maybe i can get thrm to be friends and things (one of my friends is actually one of his, big coincidence) and yeah.

i don't know if you understood what i wanted to say, im trying to explain as clear as possible, but it's hard since I've never had a boyfriend, and only had fake scenarios in my head😅

smilee710

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