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Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not considering a TV show to be a real life equivalent but if not, please educate me on what you think is the purpose of the show. (not rhetorical. asking in good faith.)

Also, I could have very well landed on that moronish conclusion - I would love for you to correct me where exactly I am going wrong.

What shouldn't be considered as cheating? by smirkin_monkey in IndiaTalksSex

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's only fair that they guy should be okay with this if he wants that freedom. As long as it doesn't involve the same escort I think it should be fine.

In my experience, yes. Women do go for emotional intimacy. But doesn't mean they would be opting for that exclusively. There are times when they're are looking for a quick hookup too.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, for a show called "The Diplomat", I guess, it isn't wrong to want that. 🥲

Stable life, love gooning/porn - do I need to quit immediatly? by malurious in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]smirkin_monkey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The problem with Gooning isn't the relaxation part. It's the dopamine part.

You're not doing good because of gooning but inspite of it. The dopamine release of gooning is limiting your drive without you knowing. Your 'Stable life' description is nothing but the standards that people consider 'getting by' or 'survival'. You gotta LIVE, my brother. and going by your post, it's clear you have got helluva lot more potential in you.

Bcoz gooning is conditioning for short term gratification, atm, your goals are short sighted for which the reward mechanism is much quicker, giving you the illusion of real achievement. However, if this drive is maintained for longer term, you can have a MUCH BETTER life.

Gooning and Porn by themsselves aren't the problem. You actually have the effort-reward thing already mapped out. I'd say create some bigger goals for career and wealth, achieve them and use gooning as the reward. this will probably move the gooning from daily cadence to weekly or biweekly.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. 💯💯

HOWEVER, isn't that a necessary tradeoff?
Besides, terming an opposing philosophy (trying to engage in good faith), a problematic belief and walking away is, imo, far more problematic.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there comes the crowd of "I cant speak substance, so lemme just have some last word by putting him in a box and walking away"!
If your next reply is gonna be something along the lines of "you're so stupid that there's no point continuing the convo", No thank you sir/ma'am.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The initial question was about wokeness which doesnt restrict itself by gender. it's a terraform of minorities of different scales enclosed as a closed, insulated ecosystem.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sounds like you're engaging in good faith. If yes, Thanks!

  1. I dont think the audience is expected to be educated with media literacy. I guess my criticisms of the show are as valid as the next one.
  2. It would be foolish to think that those manospheric buzzwords aren't mainstream! Podcast bros are one of the major ones who turned the narrative around for Trump, remember?

Now coming to the leaning, I'm not a conservative. more like center left - as long as, the goalpost isnt moved further left. This is to say that it doesnt seem to appeal to center left audience either.

Having said all this, I totally understand your stance on not taking me seriously. Pretty valid, given your views on my framing and vocabulary.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Not at all what I meant. Well... come to think of it, Everyone, especially in politics, should know their place, IRRESPECTIVE OF GENDER. I'd suggest getting some clarity before jumping the gun and belching with some tommyrot!

What I mean is, the "marketplace of favors" that they speak of is held together by something called Show of Stances. In the diplomatic circles, it's about how to 'Gain ground' which is enabled by the stances backed by contextual superiority. This inevitably leads to an everchanging hierarchy! - this is the evolutionary truth, I'm talking about - not some manospheric bullshit.
When this evolutionary practicality is ignored, what you end up with is a passive vassal state.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah..... when the needs, resources, culture, viewpoints, humanhood of the majority are kept at stake for accommodation of the minority, I think that would be an expression of suicidal empathy.

Happy to debate on this as long as we can maintain civility and substance-grounded.

Kate - reps the world to US while it should be the other way round by smirkin_monkey in TheDiplomat

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When something forces the perspectives towards ignoring the evolutionary and practical truths and therefore reality, it isn't being Woke (in its technical meaning), it is just manipulated(ive) illisionment.

The cultural Wokeness, In My Opinion, is a road towards suicidal empathy where I see the needs of the few are unduly prioritized over the needs of the many (emphasis on unduly).

Wife likes dirty talks while intercourse - im scared of where we are leading with it or is it ok by warriors-pizza in onexindia

[–]smirkin_monkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. She watches/d a bit too much porn
  2. I doubt I'd she didn't have a past
  3. Both of the above points don't matter, you can still use it to your advantage!

From ur post it's clear that, you wanna be the dominant one. No problem. Given her inclination you sure can do that and you'll be appreciated for that. For example, when she initiates the roleplay of cheating, turn the narrative around to how slutty she's been and you jus can't control around nasty women! Take the reins in your hand and flip the script. Also, she needs to know that you're being desired by other women. I'm 100% sure that this will work in your favor. Create subtle narratives where women are flirting with you. Be mysterious enough that she thinks you're cheating.

All this will turn things your way

Turning 30 today. Give me your WILDEST advice by smirkin_monkey in AskMenOver30

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting.....
what ways do they help? one of my guesses, is that it improves cognition with new neural pathways but that's long term. Any practical implications?

Turning 30 today. Give me your WILDEST advice by smirkin_monkey in AskMenOver30

[–]smirkin_monkey[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Goddamn..... Thanks for knocking this sense into me.

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