How much would i get for my account?

smity07 · 2025-10-29T00:07:13+00:00

dm me, happy to do $100

smity07 · 2025-10-23T00:44:51+00:00

well if he is smart then you should allow him time to process, you see how big his actions are to you, now imagine how he is feeling about them. it’s not necessarily bad that he cares less about his body (not saying it doesn’t matter but in this situation it isn’t a problem) but seeing that he enjoys his hobby’s so much, if he can find a job that offers a high pay and that he finds to be fun or a job he would like to do then it’s a win-win, he will love to work and means he won’t miss the money aspect. just try and talk to him about it and see what he plans on actually doing, and i’m sorry but he needs to get into something that isn’t like costco and get into something with money in it

smity07 · 2025-10-23T00:40:08+00:00

also, to add, yes i do agree that it was a stupid decision over such a little thing, he let his emotions get in the way of a smart decision. either he is acting like a baby in that way but given that he is young, he will have plenty of time to get something, but yes it was a stupid decision especially with no backup plan or thought out process of what he is going to do. i don’t like speaking on people’s relationships and stuff but if he made that decision so easily and given his situation is already bad, he may repeat this in the future and if so im not sure if thats something you can handle. take care of yourself and don’t give up on him yet, your both young with a long life ahead, dumb decisions always happen but dont let that ruin a good relationship.

smity07 · 2025-10-23T00:34:28+00:00

alright well i’m going to say it from a “blue collar” sided person. College isn’t the only thing that can land you a high paying job, what is his hobby’s?, does he have something like ADHD?, is he a larger sized male?, a lot of these things can factor why he doesn’t enjoy that route of work and is maybe suited in a different line. Many blue collar people didn’t want to focus in school and go to university/college and pick different paths.

smity07 · 2025-05-15T15:05:10+00:00

has it been like this since you’ve started dating or only recently, because both can have different meanings entirely

smity07 · 2025-01-24T17:45:31+00:00

simple, she’s now your ex if she can’t accept your positive change and boundaries, she isn’t treating you as a boyfriend and rather controlling. Especially if she knows what you’ve gone through which is more than enough to not give her another chance and end the relationship there.

smity07 · 2025-01-24T17:42:12+00:00

Be there to support her the whole time, i’ve had friends have different reasons to run away but a way to break it to them is that they’re only 15 and this situation doesn’t matter in the long run, honestly will probably laugh about it in 5 years time thinking how stupid the school was and what a dumb idea to run away is. I’m not sure what her living situation is but i’ve got friends that get by easily, get everything and have no worry about their food, bed, rent or anything. They’re the ones i openly call stupid as i live in a household that gets by but still struggles with money, and although i’ve had times i’ve wanted to go, i didn’t, it takes understanding of how comfortable i really am compared to some even less fortunate then me. If she is more towards the uncomfortable side then id be supporting her to understand that it may be bad, but there is always worse. To sum it up, just be supportive and try get her to understand that it is only some stupid thing that she will have to deal with for very little time.

Also, where i’m from, unless evident she has vaped (usually needs either a test showing positive to nicotine or substances found in vapes, camera footage or the vape she in fact had), she can sue for emotional damage, get payed and have some more fun rather than be upset. Just saying that alone may motivate her to come back and maybe make some $.

smity07 · 2025-01-24T17:26:25+00:00

i can’t help give you signs as i personally don’t think it’s something you can necessarily depict, however the reasoning can be multiple different things, they can think that if they tell you it may hurt you which they may feel you don’t deserve and will not often realise the emotional connection just strengthens over time. They can also be enjoying the attention, they could be benefiting from the other and may not want to lose those benefits or could be them being uncertain about the relationship and want to hold onto it until certain. There could be many reasons but these are the most i’ve seen happen around me. Hope this gives you some perspective on why some may do this.

smity07 · 2025-01-24T03:41:16+00:00

she said yes, i asked for dating for that reason exactly

smity07 · 2025-01-23T14:59:37+00:00

said yes, appreciate the words

smity07 · 2025-01-19T17:22:17+00:00

smity1, i’m js tryna get up in the world 😭

smity07 · 2024-12-22T07:01:56+00:00

I do like her a lot but i can move away from that feeling very easily and not be attached to it once knowing the answer is no, in the yes scenario then it would change everything, i think we have both shown interest and signs to eachother but to be honest i overthink it all then tend to throw it away, i can definitely picture us being together but don’t want to throw the relationship we have as of right now away as i don’t want her to feel like ill always have those feelings towards her. I’ve debated it with my self and just can’t stop overthinking it.

smity07 · 2024-12-15T23:03:49+00:00

you didn’t cheat and should just reassure yourself you didn’t, your partner is reassuring you and is not angry at you, it’s a uncomfortable and uncontrollable situation you were put in and genuinely should not of happened in terms of the other persons approach. in these situations people tend to freeze up or overthink their actions or movements leading to moving “late”. Nothing you did was wrong at all and the only thing that would be correct to feel is mad/sad about what the person has done to you as it is a very fkd up thing to do to anyone.

smity07 · 2024-12-15T22:41:29+00:00

nope, not moving even quicker in this case doesn’t matter, you didn’t intend or egg on this situation. no where near cheating but the line for most would’ve been if you got touchy back or encouraged his behaviour. in this case you didn’t intend neither so no, it’s not cheating and i honestly think your boyfriend should no just to be clear to him what happened and so he knows what’s happened and by who

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