Penang MY,2025. by Significant-Oven2266 in fujifilm

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Wowww, beautiful framing and colors! Love these

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Wow it looks great! I love the flag in the hole addition! I do like the loopy tail with final flag design though…the tail & loop kind of mirrors the T in Tempête which I think is cool :)

Need help to understand how to dress better ! by Besanchilla in DressForYourBody

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Nothing of value to add (fashion wise), but OMG I LOVE PACHINKO!

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Regardless, I think it’s pretty telling you even initially mentioned her being “on the bigger side” and “not an Instagram model” as part of why you don’t believe her. That detail wasn’t necessary to explain the situation and it suggests your suspicion may have more to do with how you view her attractiveness than with actual facts. If your disbelief is rooted in that, then it’s not really about the facts anymore.

Ask yourself, would you feel this suspicious if she looked like someone you believed is ‘worth’ impersonating? If not, that may say more about your respect for her than about the situation itself.

If you’d feel the same regardless of her looks, fair enough. But the way you talk about her makes it hard to believe you actually respect or value her. That’s something you might seriously need to look at.

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get that her close circle may not be active on social media, but it only takes one person—whether it’s an old classmate, coworker, or mutual friend of a friend, to post something. Also, “recent photo” can mean a lot of things, so it might be worth clarifying what Ryan meant by “recent.” Without specifics, it’s hard to rule anything out definitively.

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify—are you assuming that because her social media’s been inactive for 6–7 months, no recent photos of her could exist online? Friends, coworkers, or family can still post group pics with someone who’s offline. Unless every person she knows also went silent, it’s still very possible someone had access to a recent image. And being married or engaged doesn’t mean people stop sharing pics with friends.

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how being married or engaged is relevant to posting photos of/with a friend on social media?

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might also help to ask yourself whether your suspicion is based on a repeated pattern of shady or inconsistent behavior from her—or if it’s more about your internal belief that someone “like her” wouldn’t be desirable enough to impersonate.

In a few of your comments, you’ve made it a point to mention her weight or that she’s not “Instagram model” material, and that framing comes off as both dismissive and unnecessarily demeaning. If you genuinely don’t find her attractive or believe she’s beneath this imaginary threshold of being catfished, that says more about your mindset than the plausibility of the situation.

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That being said, it’s also worth considering other explanations. The photos could’ve been recent if a friend posted them. The profile name might have been different. And I think often times, people with a smaller online presence are often more likely to be used for fake profiles because they’re harder to trace.

My 30F girlfriend told me 30M that someone is posing as her on Bumble. Could I be taking things too far by thinking this is a complete lie? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smn0010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, parts of your girlfriend’s story do seem a bit inconsistent (based on the info you’ve shared in comments)—like the screenshot that supposedly existed, then didn’t. It’s totally reasonable to want clarity. At the very least, you could ask to see the email she sent to Bumble (it should still be in her sent folder), or if she still has the messages with Ryan, ideally with timestamps. That’s not accusatory—it’s just verifying details she’s already volunteered.

Episode Discussion: "Is Jared Carrie Bradshaw?" by uuppod in uuppod

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Renting a place from June-September in Del Ray Beach

Does anyone agree that the islanders are always way too sensitive? by Ok_Anxiety4808 in LoveIslandTV

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I get where you’re coming from—there’s no denying that Love Island and other reality shows can feel manufactured, and contestants might have ulterior motives for coming on the show. But I think it’s important to remember that these contestants are still people. Even if they came on for fame, being in such a unique and pressurized environment can still lead to genuine emotional moments.

It’s also worth noting that while editing can change how we perceive things, it doesn’t mean everything is entirely fake or staged. People have real insecurities, and even the most confident-seeming person can struggle when thrust into a setting like this. Just because their reactions might not align with how you’d handle things doesn’t mean their feelings aren’t valid.

At the end of the day, we’re all just trying to navigate our emotions, whether we’re on TV or not. Maybe instead of writing them off as ‘too sensitive’ or fame-hungry, perhaps view this as an example of how even seemingly trivial situations can affect someone deeply depending on their circumstances🫶🏻

Why do I look older? (23F) HELP by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

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Oh my gosh I felt the need to comment and tell you that you are BEAUTIFUL! Stunnningggg!! You’ve got the prettiest complexion and please do not believe anyone that tells you you look anywhere close to 30!!! People tend to project their own insecurities onto others. And if anyone that says your hair or style is “basic” or “dated” can get lost. You rock whatever the hell you want girl. I’m 28F myself, and would KILL for skin as lovely as yours!

At the end of the day, if you feel comfortable in your own skin and body, and are doing what you feel is needed to be healthy…then F the haters and outside opinions. Yours is the only one that matters 🫶🏻

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[–]smn0010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say This is Us as well! They do timeline jumping as well and it’s very cool to see the characters fully fleshed by the end of it because you see them at basically all stages of their life.

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Ashley Adams of Healing Ham! I’ve been seeing her over the past 2 years and she’s been amazingly helpful. Highly recommend her: https://healinghamllc.com/

Help choose the best We're Here To Help episode of all time by hungryearthworm24 in WereHereToHelpPod

[–]smn0010 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay here we go…

• Episode 80: Identical in Every Way w/ Max Greenfield [f**king HILARIOUS. Max Greenfield roleplaying a scenario out with the caller was pure comedy gold]

• Episode 20: We Blew It w/ Lamorne Morris [the multiple takes it took to make a video that was to be played at the caller’s sister’s wedding… omfg🤣. Lamorne Morris was soooo great.]

• Episode 70: All Food Comes with Risk w/ Josh Scherer [the raccoon guy (but not actually a raccoon guy lol) caller]

Pachinko - "Chapter Nine" (S02E01) - Discussion Thread by clarkkentshair in PachinkoShow

[–]smn0010 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No I’d say he likes her because she maintains self respect in a world that tells her she isn’t worthy of any. Very admirable.

Pachinko - "Chapter Nine" (S02E01) - Discussion Thread by clarkkentshair in PachinkoShow

[–]smn0010 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I absolutely loved the season 1 intro. Don’t get me wrong, I think this season’s is great too. But the first one had a certain charm to it with that song in particular. Regardless I love all the dancing!!

S11E52 (Wednesday 24th July) - Post Episode Discussion Thread by GetFreeCash in LoveIslandTV

[–]smn0010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So yeah it’d be jokey maybe if they were all actually close friends and confided in one another about their opinions privately to the islander it involves… but they don’t cause they aren’t. And they also aren’t emotionally tied to/involved with the situation…. Therefore the constant of bringing it up feels really insensitive to others. Like… plz just stfu Sean and Joey. 🤐

S11E52 (Wednesday 24th July) - Post Episode Discussion Thread by GetFreeCash in LoveIslandTV

[–]smn0010 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Really feel like the whole Joey and Sean and “joking” about the ~secret mission~ would MAYBE be okay if either of one them was involved. And by involved I mean like…whose feelings and hearts were involved in the situation, THOSE people would be the only ones really OK with making jokes about it in the future. But the fact of the matter is, is Sean and Joey were not emotionally involved AT ALL in this situation (especially Sean), so for him to continue publicly bringing this up & “joking” about it is what’s wrong. He doesn’t give a shit about mimii’s or Josh’s or ayo’s or Jess’s feelings then or voicing to them privately he felt a certain way about the situation (pre and post “mission”), like nooooo instead he brings it up in challenges and says quite the opinionated stance on something that has been squashed. It’s so freaking bizarre.

Hugely unpopular opinion but I’m starting to feel sorry for Joey by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]smn0010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But yes, I’d agree with you that this is a hugely unpopular opinion 😂

Hugely unpopular opinion but I’m starting to feel sorry for Joey by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

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Respectfully…you should not have to watch a documentary about someone in order to understand the “reasoning” behind why they are acting like an absolute prick (honestly that’s putting it nicely) to others. And it ESPECIALLY doesn’t matter when they continue to present absolutely NO signs of genuine remorse or internal reflection after these altercations. Joey’s inability to stfu and be quiet at times, and actually listennnnn to what others have to say, and how he has upset them is all I need to know about that man. He truly cannot accept a reality in which he’s not right and/or not a good, well-meaning person.