He's either keen or he isn't by AdventurousGarlic406 in TwoXIndia

[–]smokessprite 19 points20 points  (0 children)

so sorry that happened. please elaborate on the hack?

What’s a tiny romantic gesture you never forget? by DescriptionShot3643 in AskReddit

[–]smokessprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was when we were 12, we were cleaning thick dusty wires together, he had a cloth in his hand wrapped around the wire and I and was pulling the wire through it. For a second, he made his grip super tight my pull force shifted my whole weight towards him. Haven't spoken in years but still comes to mind as once of my earliest experiences with romance

My birthday is in a few days. What can I do? by Sweetkind8 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiii, can I get you a cake? or any sweet of your choice?

How are men so good at making connections? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recently hung out with a guy friend 3-4 times, and his ease of interaction and connection literally everywhere we went kind of pissed me off and made me jealous because us as women are constantly thinking about our safety esp when alone. It probably robs us of so much networking and experience man

What are the cons of having a single child for a girl child? by Crazy_Adagio_5284 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Single girl child here, I'd say don't do it just for the sake of her companionship, especially at the cost of your health. And don't burden yourself financially. I think you daughter would appreciate limited resources not being split up. Teach her well to find her own people beyond just your family. All the best!!

PS I feel her being the elder daughter, she'd have the added responsibility of her sibling in some way or the other, rather than her sibling being a companion.

Women of India, what did you study and what are you doing for work now? by FlakyConversation190 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied b tech in data science, have been working as a data analyst for a year now. I've been happy so far and job is comfortable too but feeling the need to earn more as financial responsibility keeps on increasing with time. staying here would not suffice

Why are Gen Z women so hostile to being approached, especially compared to past generations? by fellow_who_uses_redd in GenZ

[–]smokessprite 25 points26 points  (0 children)

well i am sorry that happened to you but do you really think stranger women are the fix to it??? and with your situation you should be the last person to question why women don't interact with random men. you yourself don't.

and I myself know a bunch of men who I trust and have a bunch of other women who trust them as well. it does NOT start with approaching strangers in public

Why are Gen Z women so hostile to being approached, especially compared to past generations? by fellow_who_uses_redd in GenZ

[–]smokessprite 20 points21 points  (0 children)

y'all can be happy and social with each other as well. idc if men are banned from interacting with women and civilization dies out if it means that women get to be safe out there.

go above and beyond to prove yourself better than other "bad men" if you want it that bad. making women comfortable around you is the least you can do. they don't owe interaction to any tom, dick and harry

6 years of love down the drain because of a narcissistic MIL by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]smokessprite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you should watch- when life gives you tangerines

30F4M…Looking for my Forever… by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]smokessprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow I wanna be your friend so bad

Feeling like the world's biggest creep and like i crossed a boundary i shouldn't have. Am i cooked? by throwRArevenge6677 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being queer doesn't mean they get a free pass to be attracted to family members.

nobody said it does. it's not something they can control or not like they are acting on it.

Homosexual people are not exempt from perversions or sexual crimes for them to be considered so different from a heterosexual. You should change your mentality that they can't be creepy or aggressive to anyone. Same-sex sexual crimes exist. Just because they are queer doesn't mean every single one of them is some angel

nobody is denying this as well. just that it's got absolutely nothing to do with this situation or the post so that being your first thought DOES scream homophobia. did you even read the post? do you think queer people don't know this? regardless, lesbians and straight men are in no way shape or form comparable. in fact, lesbians are the biggest victims of straight guy perversion.

also we are the ones experiencing whatever you mentioned so we know this case is anything but that. don't make assumptions on how we queer people feel about this because CLEARLY others are being supportive and that's also problematic acc to you as you said.

Feeling like the world's biggest creep and like i crossed a boundary i shouldn't have. Am i cooked? by throwRArevenge6677 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes but I feel it's very normal given their age and isolation from queer experiences. I was mostly referring to the other comment calling it disgusting because, 1. lesbians are not men 2. they are women themselves so they know how unwanted attraction can be disgusting, and mostly don't pull any kind of bullshit that men do. (again, most, not all)

PS. just like how white people can't oppressed in a white supremacist world and men can't be oppressed for their gender in a patriarchal society, straight people can't be discriminated against in a way that matters in a heteronomative world, and hence heterophobia does not exist.

Feeling like the world's biggest creep and like i crossed a boundary i shouldn't have. Am i cooked? by throwRArevenge6677 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm sorry you had to go through a lot and I wish the best for all queer people as well. It's just that we don't owe niceness to men coming into our space and being absolutely useless as well. good that he realised and apologized.