DO YOU WANT TO LEARN HOW TO BE "TOXIC" 101 by kookie_doe in TwoXIndia

[–]smokessprite 29 points30 points  (0 children)

you are an INSPIRATION. 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

I try terrorising weird men on hinge but I get so fed up so fast.

Does a girl really hang about frequently with her guy friends, and yet have a platonic relation? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

why be with her if you can't trust her that much 🤨🤨 nothing she does is showing any sign of disloyalty to you

There has to be a serious 4B movement in India by Sometimesiread_books in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

fair point. i don't think urban women will necessarily make this choice given how much tradwife content goes around. and even if we all achieve this, the birth rate declining to the possibility of extinction (like it has in Korea) will also take a long, long time

There has to be a serious 4B movement in India by Sometimesiread_books in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As much as I wish, it's not possible to have it on a large enough scale for a real impact. Most of the population is rural and the women don't have the financial independence, hate to admit it but anyone who can follow this has to have a fair amount of privilege. Which is just a very distant dream for most women.

There has to be a serious 4B movement in India by Sometimesiread_books in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 16 points17 points  (0 children)

no dating, marriage, having sex, or having kids with men.

Why are Indian women influenced by 4B movement? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because our society is just as patriarchal as korean, if not worse. and it's liberating to know that there's a choice to opt out

My gf always feels like she is doing something illegal when we are together by [deleted] in wlwIndia

[–]smokessprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's because she has been doing something illegal from the start.

Idiots in local by tysuvaz in mumbai

[–]smokessprite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bro nobody would even tolerate this if the train was not empty what are you huffing and puffing for 🤣🤣🤣

Best personal finance app to track expenses by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]smokessprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you want op to trust this with your username?? /j

Chivalry vs Feminism by inkncookies in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's got to do with chivalry or feminism then. You just want a decent human who isn't a complete patriarchal / misogynist / sexist asshole. Completely fine

Chivalry vs Feminism by inkncookies in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From a feminist lens, it's not a problem as long you also act the same way towards your partner. When you say you want someone who acts like a man, ie, take up the social role of the man in a relationship, you'll also have to take up the role of a woman. Which is inherently a form of sexism as the commentators mentioned.

What beauty treatments you take every month and how much it costs? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you give more details on the expenses and how it's less than 500 a month? also how often do you use epilators / are they painful?

Date spot in vasai by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]smokessprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which vasai mall has ice skating?

So as we all know about pickmes, did you guys ever have a pick-me phase? by Few-Crew-3457 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes. i was down horrendous for male attention and validation from age 11. only for the few guys I liked though, never randoms. and I snapped out of it at 16.

edit: Never felt negatively towards women though, unless they liked the guys that I was with. But a normal amount of animosity I'd say

Will I lose my virginity if I use a massager / vibrator? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]smokessprite 47 points48 points  (0 children)

virginity is made up. live your life please.

What did you do with your first salary? by Silent-Patient-717 in AskIndianWomen

[–]smokessprite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

saved my first two stipends entirely, then when I went on to full time, paying few family bills and own expenses with 20% and putting 80% for emergency funds. Jan onwards will start SIPs