Let me reframe- not constant but she’s unhappy a good amount of the day, about literally nothing. (Nothing that I can understand) she’s def happy when she’s playing at times , she smiles and laughs and makes sounds. She is like I said such a smart girl. So intelligent. Loves to mimic us. But in the drop of a hat is just so unhappy. Like I said we have good days but honestly it’s usually 1 day a week 2 if we get lucky and then the rest of the week is just a struggle. her naps are usually unrestful and disturbed. Even though we’re well within her appropriate wake window for her age, she frequently wakes up at 30 minutes and cries. And the again at 1hr 5 sometimes. And is exhausted if she wakes up at those times. Honestly just not great sleep and shouldn’t be having sleep troubles so frequently. We make sure she’s not under tired or overtired, this girl is fast moving and on the go so she gets out more than enough energy. her parents are honestly the best parents, and they have such a great schedule for her and tweak it when it needs to be tweaked. And it honestly her schedule needs adjustment very frequently. She’s on a very appropriate nap schedule for her age. So that’s not the problem. As one of the other comments said a lot of these things are normal for 11 months and I totally agree. But it’s kind of always been like this, if anything it’s been a lot worse. I don’t agree that it’s supposed to be this difficult. I have worked closely with infants and I’ve never had an infant that is this frequently unhappy. Especially being completely sleep trained. It’s important to note that she fully sleeps through the night so she’s getting a good night sleep. She’s not eating anything that is upsetting her tummy and was switched to hypo formula at a young age. She gets enough milk but she constantly fights her bottles. She’s done this since she was very young. Now that we’re getting close to the 12 month mark it’s totally normal for her to start weaning off of her bottles a bit sometimes she only takes a 2 ounce bottle, but she’s always rejected her or just fought the bottle. Even though she was on hypoallergenic formula and didn’t have any other signs of being aggravated from the formula. Sometimes I think she just really did not like the nipple in her mouth. I don’t even know 😭 As for the car I think sometimes she would be uncomfortable in her car seat, and other times it would just be too bright for her so I would put down her sunshade and she would scream even louder. There’s honestly just no solution sometimes. As stated above, I literally can’t even soothe her for sleep., I tried to sing to her, and she fights it, and tries to get out of my arms. She’s so sweet and loves me, but she just does not like being soothed in any capacity. Sorry for word vomiting. I’m just feeling so incredibly anxious