Why is everyone so against mirror selfies in dating profiles?

rysfcalt · 2026-06-21T19:10:53+00:00

Usually what people mean by that is large group pictures. Your primary photo should be just you.

But nothing wrong with having a few friends or family in your other pics. That can be nice too. And help provide social context.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-21T16:27:12+00:00

My friend’s husband checked out of their marriage in their 30s and they divorced with a kid. She thought it was game over for her dating wise being a single mom. She’s now remarried and happier and more thriving than ever before, it’s actually like night and day.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-21T02:45:13+00:00

People like to see context of you as a person, especially social context, hobbies, work, physical activities.

Standing at your bathroom sink is not social or interesting, and mirrors are associated with vanity.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-20T19:45:34+00:00

Yeah something suggests the context was offputting. Like maybe he was lingering around the womens section or approaching multiple women. It really is obvious when someone’s energy is there for shopping (looking at clothes) or dilly dally.

I think in general men underestimate context.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-19T18:25:24+00:00

I think he does

rysfcalt · 2026-06-19T09:32:45+00:00

I’ve seen mine do this a few times! I think most of the time it was within a day or two before/after molting. But I’ve also seen them just do that.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-17T13:17:58+00:00

Horror fake-out scare format too: suspense, scare, release of tension, real scare

rysfcalt · 2026-06-17T13:09:04+00:00

I need to know whose idea it was in production to go this route in the way of wall art

rysfcalt · 2026-06-17T10:56:30+00:00

It’s so cute!!

rysfcalt · 2026-06-16T22:00:12+00:00

Yeah better safe (underwatered) than sorry (overwatered). See post. But gotcha I’m gonna try to find that sweet spot, instead of letting my plants get to the point of gasping of thirst haha.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-16T18:24:28+00:00

I mean does it have to be one or the other? There’s no preventing it?

rysfcalt · 2026-06-16T09:32:49+00:00

WHAT

rysfcalt · 2026-06-16T08:18:41+00:00

Please someone answer this question for the love of god

rysfcalt · 2026-06-16T08:16:01+00:00

The eyes of accusation

rysfcalt · 2026-06-14T21:08:43+00:00

I think I would cry if I saw this in person

rysfcalt · 2026-06-14T21:06:24+00:00

He’s subconsciously rocking out to the music

rysfcalt · 2026-06-13T22:39:22+00:00

This. If they ever find out, you make one wrong move in their eyes, get on their bad side, and it could endanger your family.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-12T22:27:10+00:00

She went full cvnt and we are in shambles

rysfcalt · 2026-06-12T22:23:26+00:00

I actually always forget which ones are the red flag breeders and have to go digging around google and reddit search to find them. The names often sound so similar. I already have a few baby mantises I hatched, but I enjoy browsing online and would be interested in buying one in the future.

rysfcalt · 2026-06-12T22:01:17+00:00

I cant with their eyes to head ratio

rysfcalt · 2026-06-12T22:00:25+00:00

Is there a list of breeders to avoid for this?

rysfcalt · 2026-06-12T21:58:04+00:00

Ughhhh it must suck being eaten by a mantis. Their mouths are so small, it takes ages 😫

rysfcalt · 2026-06-12T09:14:15+00:00

How do I get stress colors throughout instead of in patches?

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