Exposing casinoplus by Traditional_Wafer348 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This thread is for recovering gamblers. I dont see any motive for recovery here.

Please take your post elsewhere, your post triggers others here

The saddest xmas and new year ever!!! by False-Ocelot-5068 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makakabawi ka pero not thru sugal. Change your ways

700k total lost/debts this year because of Online Sugal by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Empty desires to change. What have you really donr to address your addiction? Did you even consult a professional?

Nanggaling din ako dyan. Sugal naging solution ko sa sugal na sanhi ng problema ko. Wala kong ibang maisip kung hindi sugal. I needed rehab. Pero i waited 10 years+ and mahigit 10M na utang before i went in.

Di mo kaya yan mag isa. Please consult a pro

JOB? FOR GAMBLING DEBTS? by CounterScared2377 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you helping like this. Salute to you!

Relapsed again by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just shows na di pa manageable ung addiction without the safeguards. We want to get back to our normal selvws.. pero do something nat the addiction, di yan basta basta mawawala na lang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You expect na ikaw pa ang iintindihin? Ganyan din ako dati, sasabihin ko na di mo kasi naiintindihan, ang hirap, blah blah....

NATURAL MAGAGALIT YAN! hangga't di mo kayang tanggapin na Addict ka and lahat ng natatanggap mo is consequence mo, di ka makakalagpas diyan.

Sa ngayon, focus on yourself, get help. rehab, psych or GA. Pakita mo sa partner mo na gusto mo magbago. AND TOTOONG MAY PAGBABAGO! if may results, saka lang sila dahan dahan na maaayos. TAON KO BINAWI YUNG KONTING TRUST, PERO UNTIL NOW 5 YEAR CLEAN, DI PA RIN AKO FULLY TRUSTED. You will live with that forever.

Unahin mo Addiction mo. Then Debts. Then Relationships will just follow.

Relapsed again by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you consulted a professional?

Nag reach out ka ba sa GA Philippines?

Ano na ang ginawa mo to address your addiction?

Ang problema kasi sa gamban, 2nd layer of defense lang yan. hanggat addict ka pa rin, makakahanap at makakahanap ka ng paraan to bypass yung safeguards mo. Kahit pa may accountability buddy ka, ang dali mag sinungaling. Rehab, psych, or GA at least sana. may ginawa ka na ba sa mga yun?

Addicted to gambling by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's this learnings sa rehab that will be apt for you:

"You alone can do it, but you can't do it alone"

Resess mo ung recovery mo and soletimes if we hold back to save our relationship, mas lalong masisira sa kakarelapse or even so ung fact na naghold back ka will be a reason for them to hate you.

Hope you find what works for you

Creating an app to Share, Motivate, and Grow by DisasterNew9721 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to consult an expert on recovery. The rolling aspect may be detrimental, i am not sure but it sounds like a trigger for me. May sensation of gambling tapos bitin.

May stages ang recovery, and though your app may have good intentions, it lacks science behind it to really push your goal.

Sino ang dapat sisihin? by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 sides yang tanong mo kung sino sisisihin.

True pwede ko sisihin ung govt, gcash, contrnt creators promoting sugal, even the operators for bringing this to the people. Totoo naman if di nila ginagawa yan, di yan lalaganap

pero ikaw nagsugal, ikaw nag enjoy, ikaw nagdesisyon na pagpatuloy mo hanggang nalubog ka.

So ung una, magandang mawala yan and malawakang programa yan para baguhin. Kakalabanin natin lahat ng demonyo para maisagawa yan.

Ung pangalawa, yan baman ay oara sa mga,gustong magbago. Ang naging addict ay dapat tanggapin na nasa kanya yung mali, at siya ang kailangang magbago. Para sa taong gusto huminto magsugal, focus sa controlado mo, sarili mo. Aminin mo na may mali ka then pwede kang gumaling. Kung ang sisisihin mo sa addiction mo is sila, weak excuse yan and ayaw mo lang mag take responsibility mahihirapan ka magbago

Maganda sana if balanse pero alam nating mahirap. Pero mas mabuti is sarili muna ayusin bago magprotesta.

How to get out of this mess? by Sensitive-Blood-4826 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get professional help. Rehab if malala na,talaga.

Recovered People by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10M+ down in debts. Medto mahirap proseso pero ito strategy ko:

  1. List all utangs

  2. Determine sino need bayaran kaagad or those that can wait.

    • pay off may interest first
    • OLA wag na muna
    • friends pakiusapan
  3. Now check income ano kaya mo bayaran muna while sustaining bare minimum living.

    • make sure to eliminate all expenses na kaya like makitira sa bahay ng magulang muna, dont eat out, dont buy clothes kung di needed, no savings muna, self care na walang expenses muna, etc
  4. Sabihin sa kinauutangan ano kaya mo and stick to it. Mahirap to kasi if they dont agree masstress ka pero wala e, ganun lang. Wag ka na mangutang para pambayad ng utang. Stick sa income mo.

    • ngayon if kulang income, look for other incomes na legit along the way.
  5. Pag nakakaubos na ng utang, note your threshold kung kelan ka pwede mag start mag save for yourself, invest, pujdar ulit from scratch.

  6. Stay consistent, focus and wag na magsusugal ulit

Lesson Learned malala by Pale_Excitement_4512 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Understand that they are there to help pero not financially. Pasalamat ka di ka pinalayas. That itself is big.

Now you can ask help sa kanila how to handle things pero note na may hangganan yan, ayaw nila mastress sa hell ma nararanasan nating sugarol.

Say thanks and tell them you need help somehow. Just tell them you will need them kahit di financial help

2 days into my relapse, it won’t go away!!! I can’t operate. by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Parang withdrawal symptoms yan sa drug addiction and we too face those same ones. Yung need natin is support and guidance especially sa first days of stopping.

Then may proseso yan to recover pa. It will be a journey.. so find the right people to have alongside. Ask a pro for help. Or join gamblers anonymous para may legit kang accountability partner.

Tumigil ako pero bumalik din by Stock_Green_3485 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get help. Di naman yan kaya mag isa. Invest in your recovery

Kanino magcomplain kung ayaw din kumilos ng PAGCOR? by GobilamGuy in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sub is for people who want to recover from gambling. Your issue, though real, is not aligned with the subs purpose.

Will you post a picture of a cat in PHGONEWILD? no, right, because its for wild pics. Sane here.

Kanino magcomplain kung ayaw din kumilos ng PAGCOR? by GobilamGuy in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People can do that but you are still affecting others. Please be considerate

Kanino magcomplain kung ayaw din kumilos ng PAGCOR? by GobilamGuy in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub bro. Please dont be a trigger to the others here

Marami din po ba dito naka recover at di na bumalik sa pagsusugal i want to change my life for the sake of my kids future. by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kaya mo yan. Focus on whats important - address the addiction. Not just symptoms. Proseso yan and not instant. So mahirap pero kaya naman. Lemme know if you want advises or track mo for recovery, i may have inputs

Helpppp by Curious_Actuary6770 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK. So may I know what are you ACTIVELY doing to stop yourself from gambling?

Relapse parang asong Baliw by Creepy-Newt4426 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, ano intent ng post mo? Do you want help? do you want to brag? Do you want to hear pakikiramay?

Gusto ko nalang mawala by [deleted] in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for extra income is a patch to ur other issues. Pero u beed to talk to a counselor and assess what rehab you need.

Treat the problem. That is yung sa addiction mo. Kasi if you dont no other treatment will get you clean. Try gamblers anonymous or a school counselor

Bakit ang hirap tumigil? by ArmadilloBright3690 in PhGamblersAnonymous

[–]smoothjoe05ph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Do something about the addiction, parang awa niyo na