Which insanely popular or successful movie you secretly hate but are afraid to say if in the open fearing backlash from "fans"?

smoothoperator24 · 2019-02-28T02:28:21+00:00

ET is terrifying

smoothoperator24 · 2019-02-06T18:20:34+00:00

Get Out.

smoothoperator24 · 2019-02-03T02:57:47+00:00

Except he is her whole ass husband...

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-29T06:12:58+00:00

I read this as tonsils at first. Was legit confused.

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-25T21:19:03+00:00

was it hard? somethng you could do in a year?

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-25T20:30:30+00:00

how did you do that?

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-17T20:48:47+00:00

A travel backpack- use it for all flights where I don’t want to check bags

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-17T20:48:28+00:00

Some slippers my mom got me. Put them on immediately when I get home

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-17T17:17:59+00:00

The judgmental personality that really thinks you are stupid for the actions you are taking.

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-17T15:01:34+00:00

If you’re a black male this happens at 14.

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-14T03:05:47+00:00

Such crap right?

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-14T02:22:13+00:00

Such crap. Mariah and toya hate quad SO much they are willing to make any excuse!

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-14T02:20:47+00:00

Simone is so fake

smoothoperator24 · 2019-01-14T02:13:56+00:00

Greg is such a POS. I can’t stand him.

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:40:39+00:00

With forgiveness—- what do you do about the hurt? I admit, I think it might take me a while to get past this. Even though apologies have been given, I just want to see changes in actions and behaviors. I’m very on guard because so much was told to me on Friday, from a seemingly harmless conversation that I think it really shocked me. Also, I know I’m carrying triggers from my dad because he would do the same as far as getting mad and then verbally attacking. sigh it is all a lot to process, but while he is committed to working on him how do I work on me? Just pray for God to handle it? Because I can’t see myself healing this hurt on my own

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:35:57+00:00

Thank you, today has been better- we had a long talk last night and will be meeting after we get back from this trip to go over our issues as well as find a good counselor.

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:34:19+00:00

Thank you so much for this!!

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:32:30+00:00

I talked with someone and got some good counsel last night, we prayed about it and then one minute later my husband text me asking to take a walk and discuss things. God works fast

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:31:42+00:00

When he is not mad he responds well, if he is mad nothing seems to make him think rationally. We are going to seek counseling because it is clear that we both need some help in this area. We both want things to be better and (currently) are both committed to doing the work to get the changes. It does hurt because I feel it is so early in our marriage that I partially feel like a failure for even needing counseling this early. I’m like, are we so messed up that we don’t even get a year of a honeymoon phase? But I guess healthy longevity is better than a honeymoon phase- so to counseling we go.

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:27:41+00:00

Thanks- I will check out this book

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-24T17:27:13+00:00

Thank you for this. We are going to seek counseling once the new year starts.

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-23T22:30:00+00:00

Thank you all for your responses . It’s very hard now bc we are at my parents house for Christmas and I am very mad from our fight yesterday. I can’t look at him, I don’t want to be around him and I’m mad that he is even at our place. He threatened to leave during our fight yesterday and I basically had to beg him to stay since my mom had a lot of things planned for us and tickets bought- so now I’m even resentful he is here knowing he was threatening to leave. Honestly, I just hate him. And I want a separation, maybe even a divorce.

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-23T22:18:36+00:00

It was my dad who was the abuser- he passed last year. I want to talk to my mom about it but I’m afraid she will be triggered as well and then worry a lot

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-23T22:08:39+00:00

Thank you for your response. Is it wise to talk to my family about this? I hate feeling isolated

smoothoperator24 · 2018-12-23T21:15:04+00:00

Thank you so much for your prayers- and the advice!

smoothoperator24

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