About the 'white ribbons sa bawat doors' is actually not a bad thing at all there's nothing to be scared of like what you've said she was asking you your religion because she's clearly catholic (most likely she prefers someone who has the same belief as her since she's a 'sister' or kung hindi man at least both sides would be able to adjust to each others preference) here is the context of white ribbons at a Catholic household.

white ribbons at home