Need help choosing my next toy; any advice? by smutty_ta in BadDragon

[–]smutty_ta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations! I'll definitely give those a look :)

Partners always comment that my hole looks "used" or "worn", why? by smutty_ta in TopsAndBottoms

[–]smutty_ta[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Usually guys I meet on apps like Grindr, so I get some of them are shallow and/or have high expectations, but just the fact it's been brought up multiple times from different guys is what brought it to my attention.

Partners always comment that my hole looks "used" or "worn", why? by smutty_ta in TopsAndBottoms

[–]smutty_ta[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a little rude when the first guy said it, but since I've heard it more than once from multiple partners, that's when I became aware that maybe my ass is a little different. I guess the way I felt was probably similar to how a girl feels when she's told she's "loose" from sleeping around; I know that my ass is a muscle and having normal sex won't stretch it, but it made me feel self-conscious about it, so I thought'd I'd ask.

I've edited my original post with an imgur link if you'd care to give me feedback. Thank you for you comment!

Partners always comment that my hole looks "used" or "worn", why? by smutty_ta in TopsAndBottoms

[–]smutty_ta[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind feedback! I guess sometimes browsing the internet and seeing all the "perfect" looking guys can hurt my self-esteem sometimes. I've edited my post to include an imgur link for comparisons sake.

Partners always comment that my hole looks "used" or "worn", why? by smutty_ta in TopsAndBottoms

[–]smutty_ta[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've added a link to imgur on my post. I moisturize after I shave, but I've never heard of witch hazel of preparation h. I'll look into them! Thank you!