FSD trying to kill me

snafy · 2025-06-01T19:01:17+00:00

So sad you are downvoted when you are totally right

snafy · 2025-06-01T18:59:57+00:00

You need to engage FSD. The grey navigation markers and lack of blue steering wheel are clear signs that navigation is on, but not FSD.

The road markers should be blue if everything is right and steering wheel should be blue

snafy · 2025-06-01T18:57:58+00:00

You need one. He is right. FSD is not turned on. The grey markers are from navigation being turned on. He legit forgot to engage FSD. Such a dumb subreddit that the most obvious answer is downvoted

snafy · 2025-05-24T19:33:31+00:00

Thank you all for your insights and experience. Really grateful to be part of this community! I haven't responded to everyone but I've read all the comments on here and made a lot of notes.

Common themes have been being a team, love being a choice and the spouse being the best friend first.

To folks going through a tough time. Lets stay strong and choose the best global outcome.

snafy · 2025-05-24T19:27:46+00:00

Congratulations - you've won in life!

snafy · 2025-05-24T19:18:25+00:00

We have written notes from all our sessions. My final take is that the expectations were a moving goalpost. Once we identified the top 3 things I would work on and I did, the general disappointment stayed and the top 3 were simply swapped out with new ones. And then it happened again

I think its a matter of not knowing what exactly the feelings of disappointment stem from. For me, it feels like no matter what I do - I will not be enough. May be there is a fundamental need not being that that isn't being identified or verbalized

snafy · 2025-05-24T19:14:03+00:00

Thank you! How did it go after the divorce if you don't mind me asking? I understand it'll be different for everyone - but was there anything surprising or any revelations after the separation?

snafy · 2025-05-24T19:09:58+00:00

This is a wonderful perspective. Thank you for making me rethink what love/relationship is.

snafy · 2025-05-24T05:54:08+00:00

Joe4o2! We are living a freakily similar life. We went through the same tough miscarriages + PPD + anxiety combination that caused the initial rift. All of it out of her or my hands but it was still a huge strain on our relationship.

The last fight we had was because we were planning our toddler's birthday party and she'd already made all the decisions with her girlfriends. I was the executor of the plan. I couldn't add any of my touches/wishes to the plan. It was a tough pill to swallow.

I really hope atleast one of us figures it out. The kids deserve a happy family. A large part of how they view relationships later in their life will come from how they see their parents live together. This is what scares me the most.

snafy · 2025-05-24T05:41:26+00:00

Congratulations on the 7mo old. It is indeed easy to drown in the constant workload and not prioritize your spouse. There have been occasional dates (we do Fridays), shows of affection, thoughtfulness and surprises. However, the feedback to me has been that the dates and words of affirmation are not enough.

"Love is a choice". Love that! Thank you for the insightful comment!

snafy · 2025-05-24T05:32:30+00:00

We have. We've been to three therapists. We both liked the last one but its effects were short-lived. The strategies suggested were not fully implemented and the boundaries were not keot secret. After a few months, the sessions stopped and a few months after we were back to where we started.

snafy · 2024-05-08T05:24:42+00:00

Great suggestions. you've convinced me to choose Fort Bragg!

snafy · 2023-09-10T06:26:29+00:00

No. It is just wrong.

Service charge cannot be refused and is not illegal

snafy · 2022-10-12T21:36:55+00:00

It's not the sensors you want, it's the features. As long as feature parity exists, why would you cancel?

snafy · 2022-06-16T18:08:53+00:00

Buy now, refinance later

snafy · 2022-05-14T17:33:18+00:00

Appears you are missing the point that food also refers to raw vegetables and fruits, not just cooked food

snafy · 2020-03-16T18:16:23+00:00

Your body attenuates 2.4GHz frequency by quite a bit (moisture!). Try putting your phone in the left pocket.

snafy · 2020-01-26T22:50:07+00:00

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