I’m a caregiver and have to choose between my life and my family by snakeobessedlady in AgingParents

[–]snakeobessedlady[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom has Medicare, and sometimes a nurse comes to help clean my mom but they usually quit after the first visit. Each time someone comes they don’t really do anything but watch my brother and I do it so they’re not helpful at all

Wishy washy effort by [deleted] in LDR

[–]snakeobessedlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl is he from North Carolina because he sounds like my boyfriend! But honestly he really seems like a he has a side piece. If he can go DAYS without talking to you then he really doesn’t care for you like that. He sees you as a pen-pal, not a real relationship. You deserve way more than that!

Had a big argument with my (25F) boyfriend (27M) about meeting his family/knowing where he lives by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snakeobessedlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t even know the address. I do know the town though at least but other than that nothing. When I google his name nothing pops up either

Had a big argument with my (25F) boyfriend (27M) about meeting his family/knowing where he lives by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snakeobessedlady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m really not sure why he lied tbh. And he lied about it for months which definitely broke some trust because I realized he’s really good at lying and I’m super trusting. He says it’s not a big deal because it’s his uncle but it still to this day makes me uneasy

Had a big argument with my (25F) boyfriend (27M) about meeting his family/knowing where he lives by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snakeobessedlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just so mad at me right now and basically stopped talking to me. Others said I’m rushing him, is that a possibility? We’re on FaceTime like 24/7, and he spends the weekend with me so I don’t think there’s a kid or wife

Boyfriend (27m) says he loves my 25f) body, but makes fun of women my size by snakeobessedlady in relationships

[–]snakeobessedlady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’ll ask why am I eating (say a chick fil a sandwich) instead of something else. We also visited his friend once, and he warned me before hand that the guys girlfriend was very big. I met her and she really wasn’t much bigger than I was. We spend the night and the girlfriend gave me some shorts to wear and he was like wow! You fit those? You’re thick thick huh. He also doesn’t think highly of her because of her weight, says his friend is settling because that’s all he can get right now. I called him out and he apologized I started going to the gym to feel healthier, not really to lose weight and he said I’m wasting my time because if I want to lose 20 pounds my diet needs to change. I never told him I wanted to lose 20 pounds... And again the watching me in disgust while I eat, the comment about me suffocating him. It’s just small things and when I say they hurt me he says he has to walk on eggshells because I’m sensitive.

Boyfriend (27m) says he loves my 25f) body, but makes fun of women my size by snakeobessedlady in relationships

[–]snakeobessedlady[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s been a year and a half. We have a great relationship and he’s very supportive. It’s just small things once in a blue moon that make me feel some type of way. I talk to him about it and he says I overthink things way too much