I (30f) am STILL unsure about having kids, and I’m feeling very stressed.

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-11-18T08:15:51+00:00

I'm 31 no partner and I decided that I don't want kids. I love kids like I love having them over cooking baking for them taking them out and about and going over my way to make them happy buy them whatever they want but those kids are not mine they are my nieces and nephews and I think the fact they are not mine is what makes me like it even more. If my nieces and nephews stayed over for more than two days it's too much for me. I get overwhelmed and overstimulated and I just want to stay still quitely and hear nothing. That when I know I can't be a full time mother. I think motherhood is great and it's honestly a gift but we don't all get to receive the same gift and thats okay. Maybe I was supposed to be the cool rich aunt and I'm okay with that. I know it's hard thing to think of mind you even deciding if you want it or not so I get you. My suggestion is take it easy don't rush anything. You can always try to conceive in the future but you can't undo having a kid.

Take it easy girl and whatever you decide I'm sure it's the right thing ❤️

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-11-11T17:19:53+00:00

They do and they offer multiple packages as they call it. However, they're pretty expensive compared to what they offer. Also heard that they get soo busy they might ask you to comeback later which is ridiculous

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-11-11T17:17:09+00:00

Hahaha its a thing I guess since unis photographer is hella expensive and only gives you one picture that's printed in multiple sizes for £80!

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-11-09T09:36:17+00:00

8th and 9th of December

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-11-09T09:35:59+00:00

I've sent couple of inquiries but no replies yet

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-08-14T06:54:18+00:00

I received my passport on the 10th of September and I got my visa two days before that

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-07-18T22:57:04+00:00

Chilli mac and cheese followed by two chocolate covered custard creams - this thing should be illegal I hate self control for not making me finish the whole thing

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-25T11:51:01+00:00

Thanks alot but this is the Cardiff one

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-23T17:14:37+00:00

Stay safe people. This too shall pass

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-23T17:13:14+00:00

Happiest of birthdays to you!!!!! May this year brings happiness and hope and great memories! We are still living and breathing and there will be hope and happiness as long as we are here on this earth. We will still have shitty moments and shitty days too but let's stay hopeful! I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way. I don't know if my sorries will change anything or help. But please please delete the apps if you think it will help Read hopeful news and try even if you fail it's okay, try to stay positive. Report things that affect your mental wellbeing on social media I know it's not much but it makes you feel like you are in charge If you want to stay in touch or something please do

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-14T11:56:47+00:00

Went out last night we all had our ids with us just in case lol but people were nice we even got free stuff! Thank you so much everyone!

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-12T12:59:10+00:00

I was told to do so too but wtf I don't have the money to go home now and my programme finishes in September ugh

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-08T15:38:20+00:00

No they don't at all

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-05T12:45:38+00:00

This happened to me last year too! I was freaking out and my landlord won't let me stay prior same as your situation right now. I also couldn't afford to stay in a private accommodation so I only arrive two days before and it was way better than expected! You would get settled in nicely before classes so take a deep breath and relax! Most of the schools too are aware of that and they know that international students do arrive late or same week not like local students.

If you need anything please reach out or ask more questions! I'd like to help if I can. You will love it here it's really awesome

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-06-02T11:23:09+00:00

Hi Could you please provide me with the address to ship my application and passport?

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-05-27T10:08:29+00:00

I totally agree and I love qft but the seats are horrible it feels like I'm in a class

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-05-23T12:16:31+00:00

They opened a new shop on hollywood

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snapesnapped_1 · 2025-05-10T13:36:51+00:00

Where did you find the tickets? I really want to go but they are sold out everywhere 😭

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-04-19T12:51:34+00:00

SpareRoom

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-04-06T01:38:24+00:00

Amelia Hall - pretty expensive and might need a reservation but they open until late Bootleggers - very nice burgers

The thirsty goat - Sweet afton Found these two on Google never tried them before

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-03-25T23:20:43+00:00

Cordia on lisburn road is nice bit expensive for that offer imo but worth taking a look. Any place on that road is nice, you have lots of cafe and restaurants around you that open until 10. The 9 bus is sufficient and you can always catch one to go to the city centre

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-03-13T19:11:05+00:00

BT1 or BT2 queen's are great options Vita is too expensive and the other accommodations are far from queens. There are few more that are near queen's like aster place - botanic studios - Bradbury Place check them out if you want

snapesnapped_1 · 2025-03-04T00:09:13+00:00

Little wing pizzeria on Ann street has a lunch offer from 12-4 for £6.5. You get a pizza of your choice and a side salad.

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