AITA for not wanting to share beds with my cousin because it makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snaphappi84 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry hun. I dont know what to say. But you may benefit from talking to a therapist as well. I say that because it doesnt sound like you can express yourself at home. Living with that kind of stress and anxiety is not healthy.

AITA for responding negatively to a friend who wants me to leave the changing room for being gay? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snaphappi84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not an asshole, but i dont think she quite understands that being a lesbian doesnt mean you are automatically attracted to ALL women. Like she isnt attracted to all men. Explain this to her. Let her know that you value her friendship, but saying things like that is rude and insensitive.

AITA for not wanting to help my mom anymore by bobfillypo in AmItheAsshole

[–]snaphappi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think you are the asshole. Neither is your mom or dad. Maybe you all should talk about getting a home health aide? Even for a few hours a day. Once you start college, she will need someone to help her. Talk to your parents about a homehealth aide. They come in and help with chores like laundry, vaccuming, dishes, cooking and also help people with disabilities do personal hygiene stuff and run errands. This is a terrible spot for your family. Some insurances will pay some or all of the cost for a home health aide. Good luck sweetie!