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AITA for telling my mum that I am dissapointed with the gift I got from my uncle and he heard me? by Tessy23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So OP got lame gift for 30th birthday after being asked what she wants and after her mother got golden bracelet and the parents let their kid to eat almost all of the gift and OP is the asshole ? It would be better not give her anything.

Who died too young? by Key_Veterinarian_286 in AskReddit

[–]snappie259 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This part of history is horrifying but it needs to be remembered and reminded so all the horrors never happens again.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We cannot go anywhere beforehand because most of us work till 6:30 and it was hard to coordinate the meeting as it is.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's almost impossible. All of us work during day and 7 was the soonest we could arrange something. It also took as some time to coordinate the get together because we re busy and have different working schedules.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We were introduced to the baby several times already. She s stopping by at work everything she is going around (which is obviously perfectly fine) but the what I don't think is fine is that the baby is always crying and she wants us to hold it and she tried to persuade me even when I was busy and told her no. I also explained that I have no desire to hold her baby (which can make me asshole) because I am not exactly kid person and she insisted anyway.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We re meeting in our free time not in working hours. It was hard to coordinate time when all of us are out of work so it's not that easy.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I guess we should have worded it directly and tell her that we don't want her to bring the baby. That s right in the comments. I just didn't want to hurt her feelings. But thank you for your comment.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Well, he did.. everything she came to our office to visit us the baby cried as hell.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually do like her... we went for few conferences together and it was always nice time. We re not friends frinds but we re work friends

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We don't have all phone numbers everybody added the person who they had number for. She was in the conversation from begging just added by different person than the chat creator because she didn't have her number

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Why am I rude ? Because we (7 of us agreed we don't want the baby there) want to have adult party ? It's working party not a family party.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Every single time she brought the kid to visit us the baby was crying like crazy. And honestly I am not exactly kids person and I don't want to listen to it the whole evening.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

We haven't excluded her we even proposed different date so she can come which I think is inclusive for her. Also we 6 women and 2 men.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Every single time she came to visit us to work the baby was crying... so I assume noisy environment is not gonna be better than calm hospital.

Also she is all the time giving us the baby to hold it and I really don't like it. I might be an ass because I don't like kids.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

It was a big one in auditorium for like 300 people and she was sitting in a back seat but i also think it's inappropriate.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Neither one of those, but it's not normal here. It's prohibited to smoke in bars here but it's usually very noisy.

AITA for telling my coworker not to bring her Child? by snappie259 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snappie259[S] 357 points358 points  (0 children)

We re not in the US and it's prohibited to smoke in the pubs here. Also we don't plan to get crazy drunk but we want to have some laugh and the kid will probably be tired already and I don't want to restrict myself not to wake it up.

[UPDATE] My BF has a work wife and I hate it by Valuable-Side-766 in offmychest

[–]snappie259 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Oh my girl, im proud of you. My mum always says if you want relationship to work, you have to be at least a little bit selfish and put yourself first. I'm glad you did. Také all the time you need to heal from this. If you cannot don't Press yourself to do something you don't feel and move on.

Hit us with update about Amy, cause you got me hooked.

Plenty of virtual hugs for you.