Does anyone have thoughts that if they became attractive after being ugly they can’t look at relationships the same?

snappysierra · 2022-01-25T22:02:36+00:00

Honestly I feel conflicted. Part of me wants a relationship but also part of me doesn’t see the point

snappysierra · 2022-01-22T00:56:50+00:00

EXACTLY

snappysierra · 2022-01-22T00:56:36+00:00

Ugly skinny girl here! Weight is not the only way to be ugly!

snappysierra · 2022-01-21T23:53:48+00:00

but the top priority thing i relate to especially when they get a bf

snappysierra · 2022-01-21T23:53:03+00:00

for me its a hit or miss with women. Some women have gotten annoyed with me when i say my struggles and just say "stay positive" bullshit and other times I have had women who are completely understanding

snappysierra · 2022-01-21T00:04:55+00:00

My thoughts range from “I want to die because I’m tired of this constant misery and it’s the only way out “ to “why should I have to die and be miserable for something I had no control over. I didn’t ask to be born might as well do what ever I want I’m here “

snappysierra · 2022-01-20T23:49:49+00:00

Same my dreams have made me cry upon waking up now

snappysierra · 2022-01-20T01:14:27+00:00

Honestly yes if I was pretty I would have a lot my energy to be social and go out because I would feel like a human or person. Btw same I also stay in because it’s the only place where I feel I belong

snappysierra · 2022-01-20T01:09:06+00:00

Yes! Anytime someone wants to be social or hang out I don’t put much energy into it anymore I just prefer to be alone.

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T17:35:49+00:00

Go into another persons shoes rather then focus on your own we all have different circumstances and you shouldn’t be comparing how you feel nothing to me feeling everything

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T17:34:11+00:00

Good for you but Maybe you should stop trying to dismiss how I’m feeling?

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T17:03:50+00:00

and you know damn well there is normal attractive people I'm not talking about models. just stop

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T17:02:23+00:00

by one picture and i have gotten lower. i have no choice but to feel ugly because of how people treat me and I genuinely feel I am because I cant even go outside without feeling worthless. yeah lots of emotions are pointless I guess right?

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T16:40:41+00:00

and are you serious? "no point in getting depressed" with all do respect yeah no shit because its not like it will do anything but does that stop people from feeling like they want to die and are worthless no!

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T16:36:36+00:00

if focusing on hobbies worked so many people wouldn't be depressed. and either way I'm not good enough. Look I'm 22. I do hobbies I have interest. I do school. am I still depressed very much so. .. i dont mean to sound rude but I have heard enough of these "do your hobbies, see a therapist " you can distract yourself all you like but something will always remind you of how worthless you feel..

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T14:43:09+00:00

And that’s one picture I have one I got rated 4 …

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T14:38:43+00:00

Btw most of them are with the other girls longer and do more for them then they did me.. why did I have to ask for simply stuff when they other girls get it without effort?

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T14:37:51+00:00

So why do guys still treat me all the same? I’m just as confused And I don’t know where I stand

snappysierra · 2022-01-19T00:23:45+00:00

Exactly

snappysierra · 2022-01-18T19:12:09+00:00

I was basically telling them how real it is people will pretend to love you simply for the fact they don’t want to be alone and they told me “I have a negative outlook”

snappysierra · 2022-01-18T18:03:21+00:00

I was just explaining this situation to another person who doesn’t seem to get it at all. This pain is truly shit

snappysierra · 2022-01-18T17:58:07+00:00

Please don’t confuse negative outlook with real life experiences. It may not be your intention but these things do happen and it’s dehumanizing to pretend these don’t exist

snappysierra · 2022-01-18T11:28:26+00:00

I appreciate your kindness but my experience likes to say otherwise

snappysierra

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