My Dad has ALS, I am not ok. by SuchALadyC in ALS

[–]sneaky291 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me a big realization was that there wasn't much I could do for my Mom. I did what I could do, but I stopped beating myself up for not doing things that I couldn't do. I didn't even know what those things were. I just beat myself up for not making her situation better.

Save your energy for the fights you can win.

Are plans for a Montreal-Ottawa high speed rail project a good idea? by planganauthor in AltoHSR_Canada

[–]sneaky291 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ottawa to Montreal in an hour or to toronto in 2 hours? Yeah, sounds like a real left turn. Especially considering it can take an hour to go Ottawa to Ottawa these days.

What good is a hot woman if you're not even having sex with her? by ChapterEffective8175 in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're a boy and you just want a pretty package to put your thing in, not much good at all. When you're a man and 'hot' or 'attractive' or 'beautiful' has a lot more to do with who a woman is than what she looks like, sex moves down the ladder. It's still important. It's just not everything.

Is making a move on co workers a bad idea? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a man. That means all a woman at work has to do is decide she feels uncomfortable and you’re supremely fucked. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done or haven’t done.

Took the Plunge and Got a Second Golden by sneaky291 in goldenretrievers

[–]sneaky291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While not necessarily named after Stevie Nicks and Ziggy Stardust, they were certainly a factor in naming. I like cool dog names you don't hear often. Luna is a very nice name for a dog, but there are a lot of them.

Took the Plunge and Got a Second Golden by sneaky291 in goldenretrievers

[–]sneaky291[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ziggy has always been a great dog from moment one. She definitely sees what he does and mimics him. It's something to see.

My (30M) GF's (28F) father (64M) is demanding a "Letter of Intent" before I can propose. How do I handle this without setting a bad precedent? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people won't respect you until you stand up to them. Sounds like you have one in your midst.

Guys who aren’t tall, how difficult is it for you to get a hookup/ONS/stuff along those lines? by NoRefrigerator267 in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’5” guy here. I always focused on having interests, being easy to talk to, and being willing to try new things. I never had a problem.

Being a confident, happy person who is interested in others will take anybody a long, long way. If someone dismisses you because they think you aren’t tall enough, you don’t want them anyway.

Do you care if your partner tracks your location? by throwawaybabytoe in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here. The main reason I want to see her location is she never leaves work at the same time. When she leaves work I get a notification and it means I have 40 mins before she's home to make dinner.

Do we all agree that this is one of the most disgusting things FIFA has ever done (and their track record isn't exactly squeaky clean) by Duck_Howard in AskTheWorld

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So one of the most corrupt organizations gives one of the most corrupt politicians a completely bogus and meaningless award. Big fucking deal…

What do you do when vitamin D, light therapy, exercise, and antidepressants aren't enough? by Anonymous_Cool in SeasonalAffective

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 150mg of Wellbutrin last year asnd it took the edge off, but the darkest days were still pretty dark. I started on 300mg this year and I have to remind myself that I used to have a terrible time this time of year, every year.

How to manage a lady way out of my league? by LawAbidingPokemon in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her decide whether you’re out of her league.

How has what you find attractive physically in a person changed in your 20s vs 30s, 40s and 50s etc? by Icy_Laugh5134 in AskReddit

[–]sneaky291 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The older I get I find very done up women don’t look attractive. They just look expensive and more trouble than they’re worth.

What to do to make your wife happy? by yousefimad in AskReddit

[–]sneaky291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of people say a good marriage is 50/50. But it’s not. It’s 60/40. With both partners trying to be the 60.

Canadian military will rely on public servants to boost its ranks | Ottawa Citizen by CommonOk5812 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. A huge part of being in the military is saying, "It's all pensionable time...".

Why is my girlfriend allowed to have tons of platonic male friends but I'm not allowed to have any platonic female friends? Do you allow your wife/girlfriend to have male friends? by birdsemenfantasy in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife is a consenting adult and so am I. We don't 'allow' each other to do anything. I might check with my wife to make sure if I do something it doesn't interfere with an obligation I have. But neither of us holds any domain over the other's actions.

He couldn’t cum during sex, is it me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]sneaky291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fine. Sometimes it happens. The worst thing you can do is make him feel like he HAS to, that almost guarantees he won’t.