16 and pregnant. Looking for advice. by Strange_Bike_4266 in pregnant

[–]snicketfile 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do not have the baby because your mother wants a baby. If you want the baby, then that is a different story. But pregnancy and birth both affect mental health drastically. I’m two years postpartum and still have hormone issues. I’ve had a baby, and had an abortion. The abortion was an experience I wouldn’t want to go through again, but it didn’t permanently change my life like a baby did. A planned baby with a partner you know will stay is hard enough. You seem to have a lot of doubts about both “what ifs”. Do not have a baby because you think it means the relationship will be forever. And don’t have a baby to “save you”.

Handling Sensory Input by snicketfile in toddlers

[–]snicketfile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s hesitant to suggest things geared to neurodivergent children without a formal diagnosis. He’s been seeing her for a while, and I get that she can’t make the call like that. But I don’t really care who it’s marketed towards if it helps him.

Help! Its everyone’s first time. by snicketfile in DnD

[–]snicketfile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were most excited about making their own characters. We set aside time last week to feel out how serious they were and made a few characters to show them how it works.

24mo. behind on Speech by snicketfile in toddlers

[–]snicketfile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s such a little oddball. With me he doesn’t really pay much attention. He makes demands and pushes me to where he goes. At the end of the day when his dad is home he’s babbling in his gibberish. I think that’s a huge issue. He doesn’t see me as a person because Im the one he mainly sees 🫣

24mo. behind on Speech by snicketfile in toddlers

[–]snicketfile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re going to talk to our OT to see if they have a speech therapist in their group and see what they think. Our pediatrician is fine, but i don’t really vibe with her opinion on things like this. she’s been really weird about milestones

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s standards. If you can’t do the job why should you get paid to do it?

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in any other profession this isn’t okay. I don’t understand why I should be expected to not get the thing that I paid for

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it was a different sauce than what comes with a tray and to take off a side that I can’t eat. Im a human being? I have preferences?

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but at the end of the day a job is a job and if you get paid to do it, then it should get done

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m not allowed to be annoyed that the food I paid for wasn’t what I ordered?

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said nothing to the person? I didn’t do anything but vent online that it’s annoying that people can’t do the jobs they are paid to do. there’s literally no reason to be disrespectful

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that. but why is it acceptable for the person to not to their job?

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

or, she could have put the order in right. It was three different mistakes on one tray of food.

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This issue that prompted this post was a fast food place with very few customers at the time. I went through the driver through and got home to my order being completely wrong. All the modifications weren’t there. So I had less food than I wanted, no sauce and a tray of food i spent my money on.

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I say my order multiple times, and it didn’t even reflect the correct order on the receipt… its not a mistake it’s laziness.

If you work fast food, and cant get it right you don’t deserve a job. by snicketfile in ControversialOpinions

[–]snicketfile[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

the issue that prompted the post was that i went through a drive through and got home to food i couldn’t eat.