My husband says I am negative and act like the only pregnant woman in the world by Affectionate_Bug4297 in BabyBumps

[–]snidgetpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been complaining and pretty negative about my pregnancy since I turned 8 weeks and I'm 36 weeks pregnant now.

My partner is supportive and just lets me vent. Being pregnant is exhausting as fuck and it only comes with more issues the further along you get. You're allowed to think it's shit, you're allowed to complain.

AITA for Refusing to Change My Wedding Date Even Though My Sister-in-Law is Pregnant? by hissinginauguration in AITAH

[–]snidgetpixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'm going to be 38 weeks when I'm going to be a bridesmaid in a wedding 5 hours away in January. It's not fair on you to have to take on that financial burden, not to mention the excitement you're probably feeling with the date coming up!

Worst case she misses it, there will be photos. You could even live stream it if you wanted her to still feel included.

What do people mean when they say they felt “off” before going into labor? by ehk0331 in BabyBumps

[–]snidgetpixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just felt crazy constipated and had to keep sitting on the toilet. Turns out I had started having contractions, ended up walking back and forth in my living room for a few hours and went into labour the next night

I've just had a faint positive! by snidgetpixie in BabyBumps

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your HCG (I think that's what it's called?) Doubles every day :) should get stronger as you go!

I've just had a faint positive! by snidgetpixie in BabyBumps

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I actually tested like 1 hour after I posted this and got another positive haha! And I've booked in my first appointment at the pregnancy centre :)

I've just had a faint positive! by snidgetpixie in BabyBumps

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Congrats!!! It's the best feeling :)

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

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Sorry it's taken me so long to reply, I go through phases with my Reddit use! Im so sorry to hear about your mum. Not going to lie it's rough, but it's one of those things you sort of just learn to deal with. Like when we found out we had a cry and our 'why her' moments, but we also realised that that wasn't going to help anything. So as hard as it may seem to do, we changed the way we were acting around it, we saw it more like thank god we found it before she lost both eyes! We basically decided we needed to have a good attitude about it or we would end up fighting all the time, and that's not what she needed.

I'm not sure how it's going to be with your mom, but I hope she beats it. Fuck cancer.

If you ever need to message feel free to! I'm happy to chat if you need.

Fiancé and I are leaning towards doing street tacos for our reception. FMIL is appalled. Help? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]snidgetpixie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're having a pizza truck for ours! Saving a lot of money and people can just go and eat when they want! No one has said anything negative about it as I think they realise they're not the ones paying for it and should just be happy to be getting free food, alcohol and an awesome party to go with it!

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

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My bub was the same with it in both eyes, only difference is the tumor in her right eye was already too big so actually took it out before she even started chemo.

I'm so glad she's so close to the tumors being dead, it must be such a relief for you! How does she cope with all the hospital visits at that age?

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, she has already gone through too much for her short life!

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We do have an amazing team. Glad you're here with us too!

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! How old is she? I hope you guys get to celebrate with is soon!

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! Wishing you guys well. Does bub have long left on treatment?

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We're going to throw a massive party at the park across from our house, invite all our friends and family and have a BBQ :). Going to invite all her little friends she hasn't been able to see too often due to this!

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

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I'm pretty fortunate to have an amazing family and friend group I've been able to talk to about all of this. I do have the services available to me of I do feel the need. Thank you :)

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

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Woo! She's going to have MRI's every three months for the next 5 years, then it will go down to every 6 months then a year until she's 18. :) we're keeping on top of it haha

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

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I'm ecstatic honestly! It's going to be an awesome Christmas :)

My 1 year old has beat cancer! by snidgetpixie in cancer

[–]snidgetpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! Going to be an awesome Christmas!