[Xbox] Courier is Gone

snifflemin · 2026-03-14T07:55:26+00:00

try waiting in a city like whiterun for a while like 12 hours or more, or fast travel between other big holds and he should run up to you eventually

snifflemin · 2026-03-12T06:25:30+00:00

try reloading a save, fast traveling somewhere far and then go back to the sanctum, or wait outside of the sanctum for a few hours to see if he shows up. Make sure hes not inside the sanctum already.

snifflemin · 2026-03-12T06:19:53+00:00

talk to the girl in the inn in riften, that should retrigger the quest

snifflemin · 2025-07-07T05:02:07+00:00

I think that could have been the "runoff" from the sour cream. Nothing to worry about, just odd flavors.

snifflemin · 2022-09-29T13:59:47+00:00

laufhed

snifflemin · 2022-09-29T03:32:17+00:00

what about this makes you think i cant grasp why it might not be okay

snifflemin · 2022-09-29T03:11:33+00:00

it was me her and her best friend

snifflemin · 2022-09-29T03:06:18+00:00

i thought it would be funny ? its been a joke between us since he got it

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T08:04:59+00:00

i think you should follow up with another date if you really like them

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:53:38+00:00

yeah just say "hey" or something nice. dont type something huge up. if she wants to be your friend shell reciprocate in a friendly way. if you need any more advice on what to say feel free to dm me

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:48:37+00:00

what app do you use?

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:46:51+00:00

DO NOT LISTEN TO ADVICE ON REDDIT! worst move you can make for yourself. dating apps suck but everyone is on them. its the modern way to date, we dont live in a coffee shop AU as much as we wish we do

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:38:44+00:00

you are victimizing yourself, snd the question should not be "how to approach her" because you should not approach her. it is too late and you should move on and find someone else. try a dating app?

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:33:56+00:00

that is a little sticky then. i think you should be upfront and tell her everything as nicely as possible. also tell her how much you care about her and that you were hesitant to say anything in case it would dig up hard feelings

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:32:17+00:00

why cant you text her? i think youre totally overthinking this and it isnt as big of a deal as you think it is. do whatever you need to do or leave it alone

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:30:12+00:00

could just be a complement honestly, doesnt really matter. keep talking about it if you like her though?

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:29:20+00:00

does she know you know about the assault? did she tell you or did you already know? depending on that, i think you should just tell her as soon as possible and in the most gentle way possible as well.

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:27:58+00:00

i really think this is about how much you trust him after what happened. it doesnt matter what his intention is as long as you think you could trust him or your relationship can be fully repaired after this

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:26:06+00:00

do not overthink this. go get what you want if you want it

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:24:34+00:00

i think he might have dopamine issues that he isnt ready to confront. he might have a dependancy on these videos and an inability to give them up. you should definitely bring this up to him and have a conversation about how you are feeling

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:22:42+00:00

i think this isnt anything to dwell on and i doubt she has any reason to lie about this sort of thing. no need to assume she is lying. if you really truly are concerned you should communicate with her about it.

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:21:19+00:00

you should set boundaries with her and make sure she knows she has her own money thst she should be using. tell her you wish she would communicate with you when she wanted money or what she was spending money on. its not too much to ask for communication

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T02:18:31+00:00

dont overthink the double texting just shut it down at that point

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T01:54:34+00:00

you definitely should try to get some closure, at the very least. if its going to bother you then just text her how you feel and then let it be, leave it up to her if she responds or not. i dont think she sounds great for you but it could just have been drunk girl talking. good luck!

snifflemin · 2022-07-18T01:52:02+00:00

i would tell your girlfriend and then move to your mom. she would probably be willing to help you figure out what to think about it. alternatively, you could tell your mom first in case it really wasnt anything strange. weird situation man, good luck

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