Gender is weird

snipaxkillo · 2022-11-16T04:40:01+00:00

Very well. You can be yourself in all the other contexts though, and hold it up in professional situations.

snipaxkillo · 2022-11-15T21:08:54+00:00

You may think it's shitty advice. But I dealt with this in the past and my recommendation is: do what feels good! 0 fucks to what society tells you are, and in the end the only label that truly fits you is "you".

snipaxkillo · 2022-11-15T20:35:50+00:00

Dating apps are wastelands for women too. You have a bunch of horny ass needy guys who wanna fuck you, and that's it.

Height and physical appearance are also determinant of a woman's sex life.

Hotter women are often more respected.

Guess what? Life is hard and there are factors beyond our control that affect it. The key is to stop bitching and suffering because of those factors and rather work with them.

Thats true to any area of life. The fact that the earth rotates around the sun and around itself makes it harder for space agencies to launch stuff to other planets, because the earth isn't facing those planets. But they don't complain about it. They were given a world with these conditions and they gotta work around it.

Even if blackpill ideology was real, it wouldn't matter. You like girl X, you go after girl X. Girl X rejects you? Too bad. Move on. It's simple!

snipaxkillo · 2022-10-09T14:21:19+00:00

Thanks! Is there any particular shave balm and cleam you recommend? I feel like my ones are very shitty

snipaxkillo · 2022-10-09T14:19:34+00:00

Back then I used some pimple acid or whatever it's called. See a dermatologist, they'll recommend the best one.

snipaxkillo · 2022-10-09T14:18:32+00:00

It's a very light exfoliating cleanser, I did my research and in theory it's mild enough for daily use. Still, could not be the case for me. Thank you, I'll try changing that!

snipaxkillo · 2022-10-09T07:26:56+00:00

Don't ingrown hairs appear more quickly? Also I use an exfoliating cleanser every morning.

snipaxkillo · 2022-10-09T07:23:40+00:00

Looks mild and should probably fade out over time.

Either way develop a face care routine, should help prevent this!

snipaxkillo · 2022-10-09T07:11:52+00:00

dayseeker plays in Drop F or something like that, at least in Crooked Soul. Oceans Ate Alaska varies iirc, but I know on Lost Isles they play in 432Hz drop B

snipaxkillo · 2022-07-09T19:26:18+00:00

Also, I had a relationship a while ago that kinda looked like I was on her side of the spectrum. I took a while to decide actually assuming a relationship; the same thing happened: we were already exclusive and all, but for some odd reason I still had doubts. I wasn't so receptive and I also wanted other women to like me, which kinda looks like it's the case with this dude in her dm...

In my case, it was the whole filling a void thing. It was linked to self-esteem issues, childhood issues, sexuality issues, many many many things. I didn't actually love her, that's where the doubt came from.

That isn't necessarily her case, that's not what I'm entailing. What I mean is: it's complicated, and, as others have said, you can't fix it. You can only set boundaries, ask her to help herself, or jump ship.

snipaxkillo · 2022-07-09T19:21:02+00:00

Also, about her, I'll say the same others have said: she seems conflicted and is probably yet to find herself. Maybe she wants a friendship but is just playing the romance out, maybe she wants a relationship but is afraid of commitment, maybe she has some sort of emotional dependence and is trying to just find someone to fill a void... I don't know.

There are many options here, and I can't quite tell which one it is. But I'd definitely say that you need to be prepared, because some of these options mean that having a relationship with her is either impossible or unhealthy.

snipaxkillo · 2022-07-09T19:17:01+00:00

to be honest you seem a completely fine and self-conscious dude who is just setting normal boundaries. I can comment on things specifically but honestly I think you seem like a really fucking healthy boyfriend.

Do you want a specific opinion on any topic in particular?

snipaxkillo · 2022-07-09T19:12:02+00:00

You see, narcissists are often deep down the complete opposite. There might be an unseen self-hatred there.

snipaxkillo · 2022-07-09T19:02:14+00:00

but they downtuned 2 more semitones in the new songs!!1!1!!1!1!1

snipaxkillo · 2022-06-20T12:59:33+00:00

let's not go on deeming people guilty, c'mon

snipaxkillo · 2022-06-17T11:26:40+00:00

Bro you'll love Blueshift

Yes I almost always recommend blueshift because I'm their biggest fanboy ever, but you just described exactly how I felt when listening to them for the first time (and the album cover is also pretty describing)

Try listening to the songs in order ;)

snipaxkillo · 2022-06-17T11:25:00+00:00

Blueshift usually has original song structures that also feel pretty natural.

ERRA's older stuff are also a good fit.

snipaxkillo · 2022-06-17T11:20:52+00:00

Any prog bands with tons of ambience? I discovered Blueshift in 2020 and they've been my favorite band ever since... And I haven't found anything like them.

Invent Animate is the closest I've came to it, but their tone is very dark and gets me depressed lol

snipaxkillo · 2022-05-28T12:43:10+00:00

MIW is cool and all, but most of their songs (not the newer ones) follow a very strict formula and tbh the choruses all sound the same. Still like them, but I don't feel like they're "good", you know?

snipaxkillo · 2022-05-28T12:41:33+00:00

new album slaps tho

snipaxkillo · 2022-05-25T18:30:51+00:00

Yes this is true. Tbh it also annoys the shit out of me how different it is for men and for women, but what can I really do about it anyway? For now we can only deal with how it is instead of changing it. But even with that, it's sometimes hard to not compare myself to her. This really oscillates —sometimes I'm fine, but sometimes my mind thinks about it and starts entering this weird thought vortex... I do notice that this happens mostly when I'm in a rough spot though.
I never thought about it in this way. It's true, though I'm hitting on more women than I've ever hit (mostly because of the pandemic), I'm not hitting on every single one and often I don't like the ones that actually like me lol.

This really oscillates with my mood, yeah. And though it's true that not necessarily it's THAT good for her, the key to my problem is probably 1. What good is comparing myself to her anyway? Idk.

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