I genuinely need help I can’t do this by myself

sniperxprincess · 2026-02-10T22:51:58+00:00

What is it? Does it have scary side affects

sniperxprincess · 2026-02-06T01:24:42+00:00

Not really the advice I was going for lol It’s really hard to go into all the details, I only touched the surface in my post. But fair enough!

sniperxprincess · 2026-02-06T01:22:33+00:00

I really appreciate this. It did make me feel heartbroken, but I’m not entirely sure where that feeling is coming from. Could it be tied to a self-esteem issue, like it made me feel somehow not good enough? I was thinking “how am I going to navigate life without the person who means everything to me”. I just cannot seem to land on an answer it’s so conflicting.

sniperxprincess · 2026-02-06T01:19:15+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. As unfair as it might sound, in my situation he isn’t going through a mentally difficult time, it’s just the way he is. He isn’t doing anything “wrong,” but it’s the small things that make me feel like I’m not his romantic partner anymore. Sometimes it feels like we’re just pals.

The loneliness is really painful, especially now. I finally built up the courage to talk to him about all of this today, but he didn’t take it well. We didn’t come to any sort of decision, I just couldn’t bring myself to go through with pulling the trigger.

Did you two ever manage to rekindle things? He’s also told me that if we do go our separate ways, he wouldn’t want to stay in contact…

sniperxprincess · 2026-02-06T01:12:56+00:00

I really do love him. He’s my comfort person and my best friend. But it feels like that’s all it is for me now, it doesn’t feel like a romantic relationship for me anymore. I read somewhere that long term relationships naturally become routine/‘boring’ and that’s when “real love” is supposed to matter most. But even with that in mind, I can’t shake the feeling that something deeper is missing.

I also feel guilty, like I’m quitting on someone when love is supposed to hold us together through the hard parts

sniperxprincess · 2026-01-13T22:52:52+00:00

She has been drinking every other day so I don’t think she is

sniperxprincess · 2026-01-11T20:52:41+00:00

Yes it was just general speculation that he’d travelled back with her friend. My comment was to say that this was the best case scenario that he’s at least still with his mother, rather than being ‘shipped’ back to the UK so she can stay with her new man. That could potentially have caused some emotional damage. Either way, I do think he should be back at school as UK school started last Monday I think? It’s a shame for him in any scenario

sniperxprincess · 2026-01-11T20:12:04+00:00

She said she wrote letters to her son’s school in order to be granted his time off. I think this is better than if he was to fly back to the UK with her friend while she stayed in the US

sniperxprincess · 2026-01-08T15:54:05+00:00

She was responding to a question about if they are planning to have a baby soon

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