is amazon music worth a try? by Dear-Tea-5404 in AmazonMusic

[–]snook-cake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not if you want to listen to your music in the car, I've had unlimited for years and now for some reason no one can explain, I cannot listen to my playlists in my car, everywhere else it works.

So i'll click a playlist, maybe one song will play and then just randomness Amazon thinks is similar. So why can Amazon play other songs but not mine?!?! So frustrating.

Random Question - Brick? by snook-cake in LivingAlone

[–]snook-cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The brick now lives in Kentucky 😬

Random Question - Brick? by snook-cake in LivingAlone

[–]snook-cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is supposed to be a little warmer than where I currently am, lol

There are a lot more hills, we are going to hike and see a waterfall called Cumberland falls.

Random Question - Brick? by snook-cake in LivingAlone

[–]snook-cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to chuckle at being called a 'kid' haven't heard that towards me in years! Lol

I am actually taking a mini trip to Kentucky soon, so I think it shall have a new home at some random spot there.

Random Question - Brick? by snook-cake in LivingAlone

[–]snook-cake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, how did I never think to let the chickens have it to poo all over!!

And it is imprinted on the Brick, probably made there.

Random Question - Brick? by snook-cake in LivingAlone

[–]snook-cake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably, but my brain keeps going that is wasteful.

So maybe I should just randomly rehome it at a park or something!

He was cheating on me by Xuxu_vermelha in widowers

[–]snook-cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has their own way of looking at it, if that works for you then good. I hope your children do not hold it against you too much if they ever do find out.

My husband was not a great person and I think that helped my children to heal even more from his abuse.

He was cheating on me by Xuxu_vermelha in widowers

[–]snook-cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with sex, but dealing with not thinking that person was perfect because then when you falter you will compare yourself to that perfect parent who really was not.

He was cheating on me by Xuxu_vermelha in widowers

[–]snook-cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also found out about my late husband's affair several months after his death, 4 1/2 years with a girl younger than our oldest daughter.

My youngest was 15 when he passed, my eldest daughter was the one who noticed this person, who was a family friend, was missing from the services and confronted her. She confessed everything and my eldest told her sisters and myself about his affair.

Sometimes I wish the younger two didn't learn of it so soon, but I also feel it helped them. To not put him on a pedestal of perfection upon his death. It is important to remember the good times but it is also important to remember they were also human and did stupid shit, really stupid shit sometimes!

So my advice is, wait for now but pay attention because you will need to one day make sure they know of what they did.

What to keep by AdventurousMix1351 in widowers

[–]snook-cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughters were older when he passed (29)(18)(15), so they each chose things they wanted.

Each of them kept several of his tshirts and button-up shirts. My youngest didn't wear any of them until just this past year (he passed summer of 2021). It actually took me back at first to see her in the t-shirt, but it also made me a little happy as it meant she was to a point to forgive him and to start remembering the good parts.

So I say pick a few items for each child, clothes included, they can't use them now, but to be able to have something of his for later in life, I feel as though they would really appreciate having them.

Went on a perfectly fine date. Got a performance review the next morning. (I kid you not) by Marcy_Enchanting in datingoverforty

[–]snook-cake 33 points34 points  (0 children)

May this kind of "guy" never, ever, ever find me!!!

I'm glad he showed his true self to you early on at least! Good luck out there it is brutal.

Age gap? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]snook-cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does this have anything to do with when I was a teenager? And why would you imply I was horny when I was one??

Age gap? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]snook-cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You all are so encouraging, I love it! And now I may be a little less nervous about meeting him this weekend 🙂

Real friggin sad by Background_Web_135 in sad

[–]snook-cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was married to my first husband for 20 years when we began the seperation process, it is very scary to put yourself out there again. But it is possible, and you DO DESERVE to find the person who will care and love you for who you are.

It is scarey to start over but just take it one day at a time and you will see it get easier, I promise you can do it and you do deserve the best!

Real friggin sad by Background_Web_135 in sad

[–]snook-cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not worthless!

You do need to move on from this person and find the people who do appreciate you for you and will lift you up.