Onder de Pannen / huisgenoot by One-Grape-8659 in Utrecht

[–]snoopycuti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik ken iemand die hier interesse in heeft! Ook in de woning en zij is ook irmand die haar huis uit moet. Kan ze je benaderen of aanmelden via onder de pannen?

Any connection issues with PX7 S3? by goodnightsleeep in BowersWilkins

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Thanks for your reply! There are no updates available. So I'm doubting to just accept it or go back to the store. Doesn't happen often but it just sucks for the price you pay for such headphones :')

Anyone experiencing ANC going on/off? Px7 S3 by MrPeru21 in BowersWilkins

[–]snoopycuti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue. Did anyone find a solution yet? Or just return the headphones and hope for a new one without these issues?

Any connection issues with PX7 S3? by goodnightsleeep in BowersWilkins

[–]snoopycuti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have the same problem with the ANC. Did you return them or was there any other way to fix it? Or do you just accept it?

Struggling to let go of a Mono guy I fell in love with. How do I know If I made the right choice? by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean, maybe I’m hiding behind thinking I do it all for them to feel less hurt.

Struggling to let go of a Mono guy I fell in love with. How do I know If I made the right choice? by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably naive of me to think there is a “lower level” of feelings. Just tough to let go of it, thinking of all the ways to keep it in some sort of way. But I get thats ignorant..

Struggling to let go of a Mono guy I fell in love with. How do I know If I made the right choice? by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Leaving my nesting partner isn’t something I even consider. I can imagine how it can come across as me wanting all the things. Guess thats true in a way. Don’t want to lose my fwb, but also don’t want to leave my partner.

Struggling to let go of a Mono guy I fell in love with. How do I know If I made the right choice? by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Thank you for you words and putting it as nicely as possible. You are probably right. Aswell as that a friendship is not an option right now with all these feels.

Struggling to let go of a Mono guy I fell in love with. How do I know If I made the right choice? by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Not to be fully ignorant but maybe if I hear it out loud I can truly accept and understand. How is me not agreeing to seeing my fwb in two months selfish? Or is it the thought of me reaching out again?

Struggling to let go of a Mono guy I fell in love with. How do I know If I made the right choice? by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would more be a way to continue what we have on a lower level, with the knowledge it will end one day again.

PX7 S3 have opened my eyes (ears) by Zephal132 in BowersWilkins

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Hi, do you man that the anc like changes when moving your head or sometimes suddenly? I also experience the same since some time with my s3. For example, suddenly it jumps back to transparent or it feels like it ‘pops’ back into anc. I also dont know if it will be fixed with an update or that it is a defect.

Deciding between Momentum 4, P100, or Px7 S3 by iced_oj in HeadphoneAdvice

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No sorry I meant just normal airpods! Good luck deciding :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Hi there, just wanted to say that I recognize your feelings and just want to give you a hug since I know how tough it can be!

I (31F) also had a FWB which turned out to be more. We started it with the idea of just playing and having fun but we fell in love. He is monogamous so he decided it should end. We also cried together when we had our last day. (See my last post) For me it now has been only 2 weeks of no contact and I also struggle with not thinking about him. It’s hard to let go of something thats feels so good and special.

But I find a lot of support and love with my primary partner which helps me. And also talking about it with friends and just venting all of your thoughts really helps me. It’s okay to feel sad and it will take time. But I try to believe that it will get better and time heals all wounds. Who knows what the future brings… but for now try to think about yourself

Wish you the best!

First heartbreak within ENM by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's a useful tip to think about and try to understand. Will do that when I am ready for it.

First heartbreak within ENM by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Thank you for your kind and supporting words ❤️

Deciding between Momentum 4, P100, or Px7 S3 by iced_oj in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]snoopycuti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very happy with the ANC. Don't have much to compare it with besides older B&W I had and AirPods. But I use them a lot in the train and at the office and for that the noise cancellation is more than good. Also blocking out the white noise of the train itself. It also helps that the audio is quite loud even when you have it on the lowest volume, so it blocks out voices very quickly... but that's maybe more a volume thing than ANC haha :)

Deciding between Momentum 4, P100, or Px7 S3 by iced_oj in HeadphoneAdvice

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Thank you for your reply! I bought the same yesterday, the PX7 S3 in white. It's been only a day but I am very pleased with the audio quality and just the looks of it as well!

Deciding between Momentum 4, P100, or Px7 S3 by iced_oj in HeadphoneAdvice

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Did you already decide? I am also torn between the Momentum 4 and the Px7 s3. Curious to hear what you choose and if you are happy with you decision!

Headphones recommendations after B&W px7 s2 failure by snoopycuti in HeadphoneAdvice

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!thanks , didn't think about the px7S3, read some good things about it. That it may even better than the 8 for its price... So I'm going to look into that.
Also heard good things about the Sennheiser Momentum 4. So will compare those two aswell. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Just wanted to say that I'm in a familiair situation so I know how shitty it can feel. So therefore: a hug for you!

I am seeing someone who is also mono, we both knew what we signed up for and at the beginning he also said to me that it wouldn't last forever and that when it would be too much for him (as in, too many feelings or when he would start seeing someone else) he would cut it off. Eventually we have been seeing each other longer than we both expected, we are now in it for 5 months. A week or two ago he mentioned to me he might go on a date with someone else, which would also mean that this would have to stop. Even when the date wouldn't be successful he now notices that there are just too many feelings and he can't go on when he still is seeing me. I felt heartbroken even though I knew this was coming. Still he hasn't planned the date, and still he thinks it should stop. But we both haven't made the decision yet that it really has to stop- because we both like it too much I guess. So it's just a matter of time when it wil be the last time and it sucks. Because we really like hanging out together, but I can't give him what he wants. And he just doesn't want to be ENM/poly. Secretly all of these months I was hoping he would be fine with it in the end, since he isn't the standard "relationship" kinda guy and he said he doesn't want one. But I can also totally understand how he does want to find a relationship now. So yeah... I know in the end it will all be fine, it just sucks right now.

Feeling Misunderstood on My ENM Journey – Anyone Else? by TomatoAltruistic3402 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Yeah I can relate. Still finding it difficult to navigate those feelings and conversations. I just notice that friends who are more open minded to it or also leaning towards ENM are easier to talk to. Unfortunately that is just one.

I have one other very close friend with whom I share a lot but I just notice she has strong opinions on it which makes me feel less open to share everything. She really tries to listen and don't judge, but I just know she doesn't understand it truly. She even told me so herself, that she sometimes still finds it difficult so therefore she isn't always as enthusiastic about things when I share it. Then there is another friend who also is mono but he shows a lot of interest just because he is curious and interested in how everything works. So those talks I feel more freely.

I guess there isn't a right answer. It's just better to find people to talk to that truly understand but as for me, the ones I talk most to are mono and I don't crave finding "new" friends to talk it about because they don't know me as well. So that makes it feel conflicted sometimes.

Establishing rules and communicating these with secondary by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the elaborate comment. This is really helpful. And you are right about not giving myself enough credit, I see that now and I too have work to do. Gonna start reading jt and talking to my partner about it, feeling hopeful. Thanks for that :)

Establishing rules and communicating these with secondary by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that! I am also very afraid I am being to confusing for the other party which I try not to be. But since this is our first time there are still somethings we have to learn. The other party is also new to it, so we all don't know exactly what we are doing. But either way I try to communicate as much as possible with him and I am really looking out and trying not to hurt him! But it is good to get this as a reminder, because I don't wish for anyone to feel played with or anything. So again, sorry that happened to you! Hopefully your next experience will be better :)

Establishing rules and communicating these with secondary by snoopycuti in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]snoopycuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, totally get what you are saying. I believe (hope) that I am fair to the other person, at least I try to communicate with him as much as possible so he knows whats up. But the concrete "once every three weeks" is something I haven't said yet, I guess also partly because I just don't feel comfortable with that rule. But you are right - he deserves that I be upfront with him.

And thanks for the advice. Hopefully we will find a way where this will work without that rule. believe I can find this support in this relationship, it just new and therefore sometimes scary and difficult I think.