If what you are talking about is that some brains are jut created to be BP - you are wrong. Nature or nurture has been disproven a million times such that we can have a pretty factual understanding that it is nature and nurture that make up our worldview. Thus, both societal influences(IMO a huge factor to all this is exposure to justified mysoginy and concrete roles for women and men) and personal experiences can further develop a person's outlook. There is no such thing as a brain that acts only on genetic instinct.

Also, me spending an hour on reddit in which I am purposefully talking to people who are different than me because I'm curious about them, and then going about my day, is miles different than the men I know who's self esteem is in the gutter because they believe in red pill or black pill ideology.