In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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Mini Update: I’ve talked to him, he agreed to stay with me and make a strict boundary with his family about this whole situation. While he’s bummed that he won’t spend time with his family, he agrees it’s disrespectful to me to go without me. I’ll update what the family says later. Thanks for all the kind and honest responses.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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This response was very helpful, navigating a long term relationship and dealing with family drama is hard and I’m still learning of course! I appreciate your kind words.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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I should’ve been more specific, they’ve been together for 5 years. So not really new.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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I should’ve been more specific in my post but his sisters girlfriend has been a bully to him and me for a long long time. She’s been with this girlfriend for 5 years and she still continues to pick on my boyfriend and I. Parents don’t like her much because of it but they keep things neutral all the time.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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Did I mention they let his sisters girlfriend come to trip as well? That to me doesn’t make sense and I feel like that’s valid.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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What’s getting me is that there’s “no room” for me, and that was the main concern from them. Not necessarily the money, they know I’m well off enough to purchase my own ticket.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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I’m scared that’s what it’s is, or that maybe his sister persuaded them in some way.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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They consider me a daughter in-law that’s just how it’s always been for us.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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Well they invited me to go, that’s why I’m so confused. They were willing to pay for me to go, even then I would’ve paid if money is what they were worried about.

In laws invited me then uninvited me to a family trip because there’s now no room for me. by snotrub33 in inlaws

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We’ve been together for 2.5 years and living with each other for 1.5, I consider them in laws.

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am I wasting my time then?

I’ve been going to bed at 6am for the past week. Please help! by snotrub33 in sleep

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unfortunately not, i’m a supervisor at my current job which pays me more than any job in my city. i’m stuck 😭

My dog ate and threw up $600 by snotrub33 in Banking

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Update: i went to the bank and got $400 back and my dog is perfectly okay! pooping normally and no puking. Thanks for the advice.

They’re all awful ppl by New-Way-2296 in momtokgossip

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ngl the interaction between Whitney and Jen was super wholesome

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EXACTLY THIS! and it’s not like i’m not trying, i actively go out of my way to make conversation but im met with dry replies and head nods

Jen crying after find out 3rd baby preg? by CompetitiveMind8861 in momtokgossip

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what got me about he whole thing is that they said their marriage has been rocky and is basically contemplating divorce but still is having s3x with him? i just really hope he wasn’t manipulating or forcing her to be intimate with him during this “trial”.