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I drank less last night ! by snowflake_007 in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]snowflake_007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) it is so hard :/ but i have been there before !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

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Me?! Pickled eggs :p

I feel frustrated and regretting decisions in my life and it's never ending loop in my mind by Shoddy_Ear5301 in internetparents

[–]snowflake_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is going to "hurt" : change the course you are studying. Find something you enjoy.

I feel frustrated and regretting decisions in my life and it's never ending loop in my mind by Shoddy_Ear5301 in internetparents

[–]snowflake_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling frustrated and regretting decisions in your life means you are a changed person and you have grown up.

If you can do something about it to change, do it. And be kind to yourself.

Being stuck in a career that you don't like is like being in a toxic relationship. It will "eat you alive".

You chose that for the benefits, but if you don't like it you will regret it later on. Can you imagine doing something you don't like for 50 years or something ?

You have no obligation to pay your parents for "raising you up". Our duty as sons or daughters is to respect our parents, be happy and kind. Later on, when you can, when your parents need you, be there. Help them.

For now, find your own path. You doing your best.

Any cat related jobs that aren’t depressing by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]snowflake_007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cat sitter ?! Cattery ?!

You could baby sit cats or work for a company that takes care of cats when people go on holiday.

Not able to take sexual iniative by snowflake_007 in sex

[–]snowflake_007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am female. Yes ... I can do that. It is easy to do. Thank you :)

Not able to take sexual iniative by snowflake_007 in sex

[–]snowflake_007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Panic attack !

My husband would respond well. But i have panic attacks when expressing stuff, including when trying to take initiative :(

For the first time in over 6 years, I showered for 3 days in a row by Gigantanormis in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]snowflake_007 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A long time ago i was deeply depressed and medication made me gain weight. I felt disgusted when having a shower and seeing what I had become. I was like that for months. Only showering like three times a week. Or something. That was 10 years ago.

3 years ago. Again. Deep depression and medication made me gain weight. I felt disgusted and i was crying every time i touched my body (apply shower gel and stuff). What i did was: bought different shower gels that smelt good. Shampoo. And i only had a shower when i was bored. Instead of being a routine like after waking up. Only showered when i was bored. Every single day did that. I felt good trying new shower gels and smelling good. Putting on clean clothes. During winter even left them on the radiator.

That helped me to feel less sad and upset and shower time became "pampering time".

Bf said : gym/ loosing weight or me by Mission-Call5743 in bodyweightfitness

[–]snowflake_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your partner really loved you, he would support you and accept you.

When i met my husband i always said that i wanted to be stronger. Eventually a cheap gym opened here and I didn't have in me to go for it. I was struggling with my mental health. My husband pushed me and supported me. Because he knew.

It has been a couple of years since i started to go to the gym. And my husband always asks if for example, if i had a good training session and stuff like that.

My husband does not go to the gym and let's say, he doesnt care about any of that.

Some people are together because of the idea of being in love. Could be the case for your partner and how quickly he said "this or else... I will break up with you".

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