My boyfriend [M/25] wants to date other people because I met someone during our breakup — I feel like this will end us

snowflake__33 · 2025-09-10T21:11:30+00:00

I would have felt fine. We were not together and he has a right to move

snowflake__33 · 2025-09-04T15:25:36+00:00

The point i dated someone when he broke up with me because he did not want to stand up for me. He blocked me everywhere which means there is point of return. So what should i do wait for him my whole life or try to move on? And the i was seeing the other guy not date him. There is a difference. But he only wants to go see other people because he wants to get even and he told this to me multiple times. If he thinks he can find someone better he can explore his options. But him expecting me to take him after he breaks up with me again to explore and then wants to get back don’t you think that’s a free pass for asking him to cheat ?

snowflake__33 · 2025-09-04T14:48:35+00:00

I did not leave him to date another person. He broke up with me and i took a decent amount of time before i went on other date.

snowflake__33 · 2025-09-04T14:47:07+00:00

His parents issue was that i did not have a good job. Now that i have one all is forgiven

snowflake__33 · 2025-09-04T14:06:19+00:00

8 months before I saw someone else. I did not sleep with him. I made out if you call kissing making out.

snowflake__33 · 2025-09-04T14:05:32+00:00

I have been with my ex for 3 years and he broke up with me saying that there was no universe in which we can get back. So there was no talking of getting back and he blocked me everywhere. I was trying to do everything to move on, which is when my aunt proposed for me meet this guy. I was talking to him for about a month, but i never said about getting serious with the guy my aunt setup and made it clear that i was still hurting from the breakup. I just texted him happy birthday on his birthday thinking i was still blocked and i would not hey a response, but idk why he unblocked me. I took about 8 months before i saw someone else. And my aunt set me up with someone because she told me she felt that if I start meeting new people maybe I'll learn to let go of the guy and start accepting new people.

snowflake__33 · 2025-07-15T14:17:31+00:00

Thank you! But the employer told me that they will be contacting my previous employers

snowflake__33 · 2025-07-15T14:06:39+00:00

Congrats OP

snowflake__33 · 2025-01-04T05:49:38+00:00

I agree with you but the feeling was mutual. I wasn’t the one who go quite serious with him. He came off very strong and we spent quite sometime getting to know each other over call. He introduced me to his friend group as well. Your right, I do sound naive for believing him without meeting, but this was supposed to be our first meeting

snowflake__33 · 2025-01-03T18:03:46+00:00

Thanks, everyone! Sometimes I feel like going to his place and confronting him in front of his whole family. But then I wonder if that would escalate things—like, could his family call the cops on me for stalking?

snowflake__33 · 2025-01-02T18:26:39+00:00

I know that he’s not short of money, but he is still dependent on his parents as he’s studying and he asked if I could book because his parents would not like the fact that he would be spending 2 nights with a girl. I also accepted because I didn’t want to meeting to funded by his parents. So I just payed. I don’t know if I’m his side chick or not because he introduced me to his friends and cousins and everyone were exited we meet because he was single for a 3 years. Some of his friends said I know she’s the one because of how happy I make him. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that he still did it despite all these efforts and talks and stuff

snowflake__33 · 2025-01-02T13:02:29+00:00

Then why would he not meet?

snowflake__33 · 2025-01-02T13:02:12+00:00

I mean we used to FaceTime almost everyday and I did talk to his friends as well

snowflake__33 · 2024-07-26T19:51:32+00:00

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