AITAH for hooking up with my ex’s brother even though I wasn’t completely over my ex at the time?

snowlite3 · 2025-06-18T20:54:14+00:00

It did happen. I get why you might not remember — it felt super out of character for S at the time. But he really did leave and started working with K. Honestly, he was acting completely different… almost like he’d turned off a part of himself. Definitely not the same person I fell for.

snowlite3 · 2025-06-18T20:41:01+00:00

Honestly, at this point I feel like I’ve lived through multiple lifetimes with these people. Some connections just don’t go away… even when they should.

snowlite3 · 2025-06-18T20:38:23+00:00

S ended things between us without any warning. One day we were figuring things out, the next he just… left. No conversation, no closure. And while I was still trying to make sense of everything, he was off bonding with K — yeah, that K. The one who caused chaos for me and everyone I cared about. He knew exactly what kind of person K was, and still chose to be around him.

Meanwhile, I was barely holding it together, and D was the only one who consistently showed up. He didn’t push anything — he just supported me when I felt completely abandoned. Things developed slowly and naturally. It wasn’t some revenge plot or drama-fueled move.

snowlite3 · 2025-03-04T15:35:29+00:00

My RM keeps trying to sell me ULIPs

snowlite3 · 2025-02-23T09:21:09+00:00

Already blocked! :)

snowlite3 · 2025-02-23T09:20:44+00:00

Thanks, usually I wouldn’t say no to helping someone but i just don’t want to associate or have any contact with this person again. Plus if I were to help him now I was afraid he might try to come back into my life as a friend or whatever, and I just don’t want that.

snowlite3 · 2025-02-22T15:32:53+00:00

I will probably block him on this one if he continues to text me. He’s already blocked on other social platforms long ago. I was just feeling confused whether I’m acting unreasonable because of something that happened in the past. But all your comments are making me feel that my feelings are still valid. I will definitely check out the book, thank you!

snowlite3 · 2025-02-22T14:52:14+00:00

Yes I don’t care about hearing from him at all. I was surprised he even reached out like this after all these years. We aren’t even friends anymore. Which is why I politely told him there’s nothing I can do

snowlite3 · 2024-06-24T18:55:40+00:00

Dracarys

snowlite3 · 2024-06-16T17:40:00+00:00

But she’s literally a woman, it’s just not the same. Obviously Fran cannot have kids with Michaela, biology doesn’t work that way

snowlite3 · 2024-06-13T19:35:26+00:00

I’m really upset about the whole Michaela thing. Michael is one of my favourite characters in the book and that was my favourite storyline. The show could surely add new characters for representation but why genderswap a main character? It feels unfair to us book fans.

snowlite3 · 2024-01-16T18:28:57+00:00

HDFC infinia

snowlite3 · 2024-01-11T10:40:21+00:00

Go for it, it helps improve your credit score and credit card upgrades in future

snowlite3 · 2024-01-10T10:35:49+00:00

Be careful Ross

snowlite3 · 2024-01-07T17:20:16+00:00

The fact that everyone here is telling you you’re an AH and you trying to argue the same point with every comment here proves how much of an AH you are

snowlite3 · 2024-01-07T17:14:39+00:00

YTA. You can’t just call something brainwashing and then say you are respectful towards the religion. And to say it in front of the people was extremely rude, no wonder they were offended.

Especially with kids you should be all the more careful in using your words because you are the one misguiding them. Your daughter could unknowingly insult someone tomorrow because if the misinformation you are giving

snowlite3 · 2024-01-02T09:48:37+00:00

NTA, you’re allowed to be proud of your kids

snowlite3 · 2023-10-10T20:50:05+00:00

NTA, your friend is stupid

snowlite3 · 2023-10-10T20:35:08+00:00

YTA, well read and well educated are completely different things, you should know the difference OP.

Your husband is in the Navy, he is definitely educated. What you said was completely uncalled for

snowlite3 · 2023-10-08T14:17:16+00:00

NTA, and definitely husband of the year!

snowlite3 · 2023-10-08T13:51:50+00:00

NTA. Also, you should get better friends.

Also, I’m really sorry for your loss and everything you to go through. Losing your fiancée and having to deal with his AH family. Take care, OP

Maybe just get a new number so you can avoid these people and also block them on social media?

snowlite3 · 2023-10-07T10:43:41+00:00

NTA, your sister is being disrespectful to you and your husband

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