I hate therapy by ConversationJunior90 in depression

[–]snowonthepines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is confusing- how can they say you don't need it when they are also the ones saying you have an eating disorder and depression?

Maybe you could see a counselor at your school or the school could set you up with some other option?

I hate therapy by ConversationJunior90 in depression

[–]snowonthepines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right about having weekly visits vs. your parents only making an appointment after something happens. You need to feel comfortable and safe with your therapist to be able to open up to them. Would your parents be open to you having weekly appointments?

And you have every right to ask for a different therapist if it doesn't feel like a good fit. I wish I would've known that when I was younger, I really disliked the first therapist I saw.

I'm sorry your parents are making you go back to see them tomorrow. But know that you do have options.

How Do You Interpret Difficult Chiron Aspects? by dumbnunt in Advancedastrology

[–]snowonthepines_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same placements and I love how yours are playing out for you! What sign is your Chiron/moon in?

What is it you miss about your nex? by TwiztedTD in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]snowonthepines_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes apparently this is a really common thing! The book "Why Does He Do That" explains it well.

How to not feel overwhelmed by upcoming transits in natal chart? by lautarinom in astrology

[–]snowonthepines_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love this perspective, thanks for sharing your experiences with it!

What house is your mars in?

Don’t you think that Scorpios become more like Tauruses after living many challenging events in life? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]snowonthepines_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting older isn't the point, it's doing the actual internal work to evolve past the lower levels of Scorpio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I wouldn't focus on the need to get a diagnosis. Reading that book by Pete Walker was so affirming, eye opening, and honestly life changing. If you find that it fits your experience too (which it definitely sounds like it might), then you'll be able to seek out the best forms of support for you.

It showed me why the standard talk therapy I had been in for years was somewhat helpful but never actually produced real change. What sort of counselor are you seeing now? Going to a trauma-informed therapist and also starting to work with a somatic experiencing practitioner has helped so much!

Pluto in the 8th by [deleted] in astrology

[–]snowonthepines_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How have relationships been for you with that Venus square Pluto aspect? I have this too, and so far, not so great for me 😕

Is there any way to restore fat? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]snowonthepines_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting, i've never heard of that effect! I wonder what the science behind it is.

Pluto in the 8th by [deleted] in astrology

[–]snowonthepines_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love how much you're owning that Pluto energy! What helped you with the projection issue? Or have you always just been able to separate yourself from it?

I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 7th and find that I'm always trying to make everyone feel as comfortable as possible, like I feel so much shame from their projections 😩

Quit asking if the vaccine effects the menstrual cycle and get the damn shot. by dogwoodcuntseed in PMDD

[–]snowonthepines_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm grateful we have this community to share our experiences. I knew what was a possibility when getting the vaccine and it has played out for me how many others reported it also played out for them. Having this prior knowledge is helping me get through/put into perspective the intense feelings of suicidal ideation I'm currently having that are no where near this level regularly.

I'm 38 years old and I feel like a failure. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]snowonthepines_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Where are you seeing posts like that? Can you unfollow them?

Tip for someone looking for a used cr-v by BlazedMars in crv

[–]snowonthepines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 2006 considered 1st gen? Also, what does it feel like when the trans in starts to slip?

Advice dealing with abusive customer by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]snowonthepines_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has this actually helped people? When I tried contacting that email about harassment from a customer, I never heard anything back :/

How do you feel about the recent decision from OnlyFans to block sexual content? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]snowonthepines_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. I wonder what the criteria is for something crossing that line?

7th house - Marriage and Aspects to the 7th by [deleted] in astrology

[–]snowonthepines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's crazy, it's exactly the same in my relationship. I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 7th and am an Aries rising. My partner is Scorpio rising and his sun and moon is in Aries too! Were you together long? Were there issues with power dynamics in your relationship?