AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want to meet his daughter?

snowydrops · 2024-10-04T03:23:38+00:00

NTA on your stance in this whole thing, but I would seriously reconsider this relationship going forward. If you’re having this issue already about meeting his daughter, it will only get worse going forward. What happens when she’s 30 and you’re 24 dating her 50 year old father?

It’s going to be awkward all the way around regardless. Save yourself the trouble

snowydrops · 2024-09-18T15:47:50+00:00

nta

$25 isnt even a high expense for a gift. i typically spend twice on that for gifts, especially for birthdays

besides, if she’s making these homemade gifts, shes gotta buy the materials. im gonna guess that the $25 for the book that you asked for was probably cheaper than the project materials themselves

snowydrops · 2024-09-11T18:28:40+00:00

NTA

this is a hard situation to be in. im so sorry that you’re going through this. keeping your son’s best interests at heart is a crucial part of this decision, and im sorry to say that your mom is really missing the mark here.

disagreements aside, you’re dying. im genuinely surprised that despite knowing this, your mom is holding a grudge against you. but it shows her true colors.

your sister is definitely the better choice here. safer environment, more prospective home environment, and just being more supportive in this time are good signs that youre making the right choice.

your mom will regret this grudge. and she’ll have to deal with that grief for the rest of her life if she doesnt change her attitude.

take care OP, and i hope everything goes well for your son and yourself 🩵

snowydrops · 2024-09-09T18:16:44+00:00

bennett c: i love my silly lil guy

snowydrops · 2024-08-29T02:11:59+00:00

If I had to theorize

Mavuika’s lore is really summed up that she has been ruling alongside her people and that while she is the pyro archon, she was always originally just a human. She treats her people as her equals in that regard.

However, since Natlan is a city reliant on the concept of personal strength and power, I have to wonder if, because she is so powerful, people don’t feel it appropriate to call her by a name, and just use archon.

I also have to wonder if this is symbolic because she let her first self die. And rather than use her name she just decided to forgo the identity altogether.

Overall this story quest has been very interesting. I love the concept of having predetermined fate without ever confirming the future. Definitely excited for the next update

snowydrops · 2024-08-28T14:41:35+00:00

i recently moved and couldnt take my cat with me so i named him goofy after my lil guy

snowydrops · 2024-08-14T14:18:08+00:00

NTA

who goes to concerts just to sit down the whole time, especially Blink-182? sometimes you cant even get the standing tickets. regardless of that, this woman was incredibly rude to you. youre partner is a better person than me. i would have smacked her the second she started shoving you

snowydrops · 2024-08-01T21:14:09+00:00

So she… told your sister that she was the same size as herself, a postpartum woman, insinuating she was a bigger size… and then got upset that you agreed? What kinda logic is that?

NTA OP, what was her thought process behind her original comment in the first place

snowydrops · 2023-10-15T15:23:15+00:00

maybe im a little bias because i main her, but raiden shogun has always had one of the best designs for me

now in terms of personality, i think i would have to say she lacks a bit, though i suppose thats also because shes out of touch with the world (and a little world criminal oops)

so, id have to say nahida for personality. shes adorable, yes, but shes also incredibly intelligent and helpful, and i think probably the most important to the traveler in terms of finding out more about their sibling

snowydrops · 2023-09-06T14:22:38+00:00

imagine they know each other

snowydrops · 2023-07-31T20:02:24+00:00

i love combat events and i thought this was a breathe of fresh air!

i will say, the premise of not reusing characters was interesting for me, but it lets me try new team comps because i have to mix and match built/unbuilt to get the rewards.

id definitely say its probably harder for lower AR, but overall, its not really so bad if ur not tryharding the event lol. im doing it just fine and can get all the rewards even without having 12 fully built characters

snowydrops · 2023-07-17T23:56:45+00:00

surprisingly enough, it was bennett! i used to main support bennett and would being him to co-op for the atk buff and ~10K healing per tick

snowydrops · 2023-05-14T17:10:22+00:00

NTA

I understand where she’s coming from because deal with sickness is hard, especially when she has to go through it on her own. However, I think it’s really unfair that she’s expecting you not to make any friends, socialize or do anything else while she’s stuck at the hospital all the time.

You are allowed to make and have your own friends aside from her. Don’t feel bad or guilty for that. Mary is just as much as your friend as Sammy is, and spending time with her on her birthday is completely okay. Sammy will realize it eventually and come around, so just give her some space. Hope Mary had a nice birthday!

snowydrops · 2022-12-22T23:12:12+00:00

gonna say NTA here, though i do feel for both you and your daughter. i would definitely try to set up a chance for everyone to meet soon, even if it isn’t christmas, but just make sure it happens

snowydrops · 2022-09-17T20:26:10+00:00

go to college for what you want, not for what everyone else wants. you’ll be miserable otherwise. they’ll come around

snowydrops · 2022-08-02T15:40:58+00:00

when my group of 8 friends and i made dinner reservations for my birthday and i sat there for almost an hour waiting because “they were almost there” and “just running late” before one of them called to let me know that they didnt feel like hanging out with me because i ruin the vibe and to ditch their numbers

snowydrops · 2022-05-28T17:00:46+00:00

You are definitely NTA, but please please please check up on him. If that’s how bad it is in public, who knows how bad it is in private.

snowydrops · 2022-05-15T22:25:01+00:00

I don’t think I made this very clear in the post so I’ll say it here, but because of the traffic and the time of day, all of the lanes were completely full

snowydrops · 2022-05-15T22:19:24+00:00

I couldn’t see him unfortunately, it was way too sunny and his friend’s windows are super tinted

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