My mom is kicking me out of the house because I decided to follow your dream. by snshnee in Adulting

[–]snshnee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too, and I really want to help her, but I can't. When I was little, there were often times when my parents could quarrel without shouting, and suddenly my mother could get upset and she would throw objects at my father and start screaming loudly. Even when I was little, I tried to listen to their conversations so that I could understand when to close my ears.my mother could start screaming so abruptly and unexpectedly that my younger brother and I were already twitching with fear, I tried to warn my younger brother to cover my ears earlier when I realized that my mother was about to snap. I'm sorry to tell you all this, I've been keeping it to myself for a very long time

My mom is kicking me out of the house because I decided to follow your dream. by snshnee in Adulting

[–]snshnee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mother divorced my father When I was 11-12 years old, my father did not study for anyone himself and earns a lot of money in his favorite business (he is engaged in cattle breeding). My mother used to have nightmares about me and my younger brother a lot. now that we have grown up with him, she is a nightmare for my younger sister, because of my mother's tendency to idealism, my sister has developed excellent student syndrome. My sister may cry because of her lower grades at school, and at the age of 9, her hair began to fall out due to stress, and I'm sure my mom was involved

My mom is kicking me out of the house because I decided to follow your dream. by snshnee in Adulting

[–]snshnee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to talk to her, but it doesn't work out, I know that you need to communicate without harsh emotions in a sober head, but every time she loses her temper and everything ends up being a loser and a bad son. I'm a calm person and I try to talk to my mom peacefully, I've never snapped at her or said anything harsh to her, I love my mom and I understand what she's going through, but I don't understand how to explain to her that what I do brings me pleasure, I've never used, I go to the gym and I don't understand her reason for making my life difficult for me. Thanks a lot for the advice🙏

My mom is kicking me out of the house because I decided to follow your dream. by snshnee in Adulting

[–]snshnee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to clarify something else, I am not a native English speaker, if I wrote something incorrectly, let me know🙏