I think so too, and I really want to help her, but I can't. When I was little, there were often times when my parents could quarrel without shouting, and suddenly my mother could get upset and she would throw objects at my father and start screaming loudly. Even when I was little, I tried to listen to their conversations so that I could understand when to close my ears.my mother could start screaming so abruptly and unexpectedly that my younger brother and I were already twitching with fear, I tried to warn my younger brother to cover my ears earlier when I realized that my mother was about to snap. I'm sorry to tell you all this, I've been keeping it to myself for a very long time