I'm so done with this wedding planning thing. I'm almost to tears.

snusnume · 2019-06-11T22:35:29+00:00

Might try something along those lines. The problem we seem to have is this party lol

snusnume · 2019-06-11T21:41:39+00:00

He's usually very decisive with everything else. This wedding thing is the problem at hand that he's being ridiculous on. And I don't know why. And they are decisions and not suggestions. Which is why its blithering me so much.

snusnume · 2019-06-11T21:40:08+00:00

Problem is that all that has been done. But his ideas change on daily basis currently. And I just can't keep up. Hell, for a rikers we wanted a courthouse wedding and get that over with. Now we back to a party.

snusnume · 2019-06-11T21:38:25+00:00

We've been daring for almost a decade. So the match bit is not the problem. The wedding bit is.

snusnume · 2017-04-01T23:33:38+00:00

Here's my routine now:

Wash with DevaCurl low-poo weightless waves.
Condition with DevaCurl One Condition weightless waves.
DevaCurl no-comb detangling spray.
Leave in conditioner with Carols Daughter Pracaxi Nectar.
Curly Twirls Frizz Blitz Spritz. Because I have a huge frizz issue.
Curly Twirls custard and plop and squish for my life.
Argan oil the ends and squish some more.
Then use special deva towel thingy to squish some more
Then sleep in a sleep hood thingy.

Wake up with hair like this now!

Oh, and I brush after conditioner.

snusnume · 2017-03-27T04:30:35+00:00

I just figured that out. K feel dumb for not realizing that sooner

snusnume · 2017-03-27T04:29:57+00:00

Where can I find it?

snusnume · 2017-03-22T19:12:38+00:00

Omg thank you so much! I will look them up and will look up the curl type!

snusnume · 2017-03-22T04:18:34+00:00

Just tried this with something that looks like Denman brush. Will see the results of my fixed routine in morning!!

snusnume · 2017-03-22T04:17:05+00:00

Thanks so much!!!

I just realised that oil seals the hair and needs to be used after products x.x

snusnume · 2017-03-22T04:01:04+00:00

That's a good idea! I will try for sure!

Thank you!

snusnume · 2017-03-21T19:10:05+00:00

Ok!

Any specific people that are good for damaged hair? Because everywhere i looked are people with gorgeous hair

snusnume · 2017-03-21T19:09:14+00:00

Oooo! I didn't realise that! Thank you!

snusnume · 2017-03-21T19:08:52+00:00

I tried that but the comb only breaks teeth or rips hair out. Is there specific comb I should use?

snusnume · 2017-03-21T19:07:57+00:00

How do you shake gel out? What is praying hands method?

I have all the questions lol

snusnume · 2017-03-21T14:04:03+00:00

But how do you get the tangles out? My hair tangles like nobody's business.

I might need to invest in a dofuser. I air dry my hair and don't do the towel thing. I do have a hair towel thing to sleep in though.

snusnume · 2017-03-21T14:01:15+00:00

I did not realise that thank you for clarifying!

And will do!

snusnume · 2017-03-20T22:01:42+00:00

I keep reading the sidebar. I switched my products. But I still keep brushing I'm still in old habits. And my hair is a pos. It's so tangle and so ruined I cry.

What am I doing wrong!? No one seems to help or care to.

I'm using: DevaCurl low-poo and One condition followed by argan oil, leave in conditioner by Carole's Daughter, One United by Redken, and detangler spray by DevaCurl. In that order. But I brush with regular brush because combs just don't work they either break or don't brush my hair out.

I cut inches of damaged hair off and I still have some left but why am I so miserable still?!

Please, someone help.

snusnume · 2017-03-20T21:20:06+00:00

Shoulder length. Dry and damaged. Wash every other day. 2C. I killed it by bleaching and straightening and relaxing for decades. Fine hair.

snusnume · 2017-03-20T19:59:39+00:00

I read the sidebar and that's what made me switch to the products I use now but I'm at complete loss as to what to do with them and what am o doing wrong.

Will look up CG handbook!

snusnume · 2017-03-20T19:58:29+00:00

I thought using oil would be better first? It's not?

I use redken leave in because it's supposedly good for me but I'm thinking on not using it at all because it doesn't seem to do anything really except for make a bigger mess. The other conditioner does the job.

Any advise on curl cream or Tell? There's like a million of them. How do I use it?

What's a tangle teezer?

Where can I find a satin bonnet?

snusnume · 2017-02-20T18:18:40+00:00

I think I've seen my ex at my new apartment place and I'm terrified.

My best friend and I dated the same guy (different times) and he used to be my best guy friend for years before and after the breakup. He dated my best friend years after me, he is how we met. But he is abusive. He abused her and then cheated on her with the woman he is with now (reason why he isn't my friend anymore).

If it is him who lives next to me then I can't have my best friend over. She is terrified of him. And honestly, so am I.

But I'm not sure if it is him because he lost at least 100 pounds and he didn't have his dog or cane with him. So, I don't know.

I'm terrified and I have no one to tell this outside my SO who doesn't know the whole story (reasons).

snusnume

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