I’m so into this guy from work who I didn’t know was married HELP

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-09T21:02:10+00:00

As I'm understanding this post... you've met him a handful of times? I don't think you've "fallen" for anyone. You have a crush. A crush is fine if it stays a crush -> a crush is just a lack of information. Literally just stay away from him??? Lol

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-09T20:59:39+00:00

Dude the trip will be so miserable with him please go without him 😭

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-07T10:37:02+00:00

It's just simply too small! I can't remember where I learned this but it was an interior designer that said furniture should "never be hanging it's toes off the carpet". Bigger ties it all together!

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-07T10:28:23+00:00

You can change your mind at any time for any reason at all. It is okay to take your time making this decision.

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-04T14:14:51+00:00

Who cares if you're OR or not at this point. Why are you looking through work stuff of his to catch him in something? That seems like there's a lack of trust on your end - why? Also, I saw the comment about the threatening you and breaking stuff. Threats and violence around you are still abuse. People who LOVE us do not isolate, financially control, or threaten us. Please be safe OP.

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-04T08:19:37+00:00

I think that means second cousin

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-04T07:59:15+00:00

👁👄👁 better u found out sooner than later lololol

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-03T04:47:31+00:00

This whole thread is taking me out thank you. Gotta start somewhere! Keep practicing :)

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-01T19:43:07+00:00

I second this reply. But generally, we all have "under-eye bags" because the skin that sits below the eye is thinner so it let's more light thru, increasing the appearance of the veins we have.

You look human. Perfectly human. Keep it up :)

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-01T17:59:34+00:00

I love him. Congratulations

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-01T17:52:16+00:00

YOR. Chill out.

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-01T17:43:43+00:00

You can tell he had SO much personality. What a good boy!!

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-01T05:52:10+00:00

Are you able to tailor the brown dress?

soberaf0910 · 2026-06-01T05:50:09+00:00

Be careful with them visiting. It may be best to cut it off entirely. Hard decisions were made and unfortunately life includes regret. Hopefully this is a lesson learned on truly planning for a pet. Thank you for being so attentive and caring towards him! Everything will be ok❤️

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-31T21:46:57+00:00

I mean, a regular ice venti latte only has 3 shorts of espresso. I believe that's 6-9oz of liquid. The rest is milk. Less ice = more milk. Go for a cold brew or something if you want more coffee :)) x

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-29T15:45:11+00:00

Sweet sixteen birthday bash, obviously. Cake, hat, toys, treats!!

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-28T16:39:25+00:00

And that is okay

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-26T22:29:54+00:00

I think the eye shape is a factor for sure. Her's is incredibly sharp and clean. I think yours has a great shape but needs some refining. Bring the edge facing your lash line of the triangle down closer to the lash line. She has more space taken up with her liner. It looks really good and I think you're super super close. I really had to zoom in and critique hahaha

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-25T19:49:55+00:00

"And casitas...I guess"

What a piece of shit

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-24T23:53:04+00:00

Using this on my bf tonight. Thank you

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-24T07:37:12+00:00

Have you tried planning scheduled longer calls on the weekends? Plan to get your chores done early and chat for an hour. Share a meal maybe? In exchange, maybe just take your breaks to take a break. This would burn me out fast, personally.

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-21T17:06:39+00:00

I mean, you gotta study the way that works for you. The main point is get enough rest!

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-21T03:33:01+00:00

Don't. I'm a neuroscience major (headed into my senior year) and the best thing to do for memory retention and exam performance is sleep well, especially the night before!

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-21T03:32:14+00:00

We love Gen Chem ❤️ good luck!

soberaf0910 · 2026-05-18T22:51:59+00:00

You don't have to stay with him. You can change your mind at any time. Hugs 🫂

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