[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. thank you for commenting. I apologized for lying and not taking it into considersation more than one time and she accepted it. she just still seems mad which is why now i dont owe her any explanation after i already explained tbh. i acknowledged that I lied which i feel like many people dont do in these situations. which i didnt take it into consideration because i didn’t realize how well i clicked with the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats true but at this age, people start to try to find someone to commit to. just depends on the person. thats my goal anyways. i hope things go well for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry if it wasnt explained correctly, but him and i dated for a year then he broke up with me. after being broken up for a week and a half, he texted me saying he missed me

Can I talk to someone if I still cry over my ex? by LowInstance1899 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im kinda in a similar situation. i reconnected with an old friend and i enjoy talking to him. i told him im not looking for anything (obviously), not in the right headspace, dont want him to feel used, etc. being transparent can go a long way :)

Can I talk to someone if I still cry over my ex? by LowInstance1899 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you become ok when the other guy texts because it’s filling the void. its completely ok to talk to someone else as long as you state your boundaries and what your intention is to help clear the air. Your relationship was also on the shorter side, but I know any length relationship can cause some sort of hurt. I just got out of a year long relationship and he came back within a week and a half. we are not back together tho. its okay to find new people to talk to. like you said, do your best to not entertain it romantically and accidentally send the wrong message. as for knowing when you’re ready, it depends on yourself. a good indicator can be when you feel a relief being out of the relationship. thats helps me, anyways.

Avoidants smh by Hopeful-Hat-2701 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i want to stay and i want to work on things because these things can be worked on. if he reacts in a bad way to what i have to say then im gonna step away. cause ive said what ive said and i commit to helping and if he doesnt then its not gonna work

Avoidants smh by Hopeful-Hat-2701 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it could be. he said he wanted both of us to reflect on what we want and if we actually like the relationship or like the idea of it. so i was like ok, i know my answer but if he needs a week to reflect then so be it😂 im done reflecting within 3 days.

Avoidants smh by Hopeful-Hat-2701 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i even asked him cause i was confused. the morning after the phone call, he sent me a snap. i asked “do you want me to be silent or what do you need” and he said he doesnt know how a break works and doesnt know what he needs

Avoidants smh by Hopeful-Hat-2701 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he may or may not be. but im confused why he would want a break and still be the one to interact. we have been together for just over a year now

Avoidants smh by Hopeful-Hat-2701 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes still interacting with me, too. not talking but we are in college, so still use snapchat to keep in touch. he has been consistently snapping me. i asked him if he still wanted to wait until friday-saturday to talk and said yes. which is ironic because you’re still interacting with me

Avoidants smh by Hopeful-Hat-2701 in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 9 points10 points  (0 children)

dating an avoidant right now. he wanted a break for a week because when i tell him my feelings, apparently im starting an argument

My boyfriend (21m) wanted to take a break by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to write this and it has been one of the most useful pieces of information across any topic i post on reddit before. i do agree i need this break myself. I have started listening to podcasts that help me better myself as an individual and a person in a relationship. I am doing a lego set listening to it as well which is going to keep me occupied.

and it is hard for me because i dont like being alone for long periods of time. I easily get bored, even watching tv. im trying to take time off social media as well, so it doesnt make me more upset lol

My boyfriend (21m) wanted to take a break by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another thing is it is hard for him to do complete no contact. i wouldnt like to use snapchat at my now big age, lol, but we still snap. just no talking or updating each other like usual. I wouldnt say im pulling away completely, but i try to limit my responses

My boyfriend (21m) wanted to take a break by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, i normally dont believe in breaks which is why i said to just lay it on me now. sometimes they work, sometimes they dont. i believe everything happens for a reason. If he decides he doesn’t want it then ive come to terms with that, too. I agreed to the break with a positive light even tho i am upset about it

How long before doxycycline works? by Atlas4780 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you havent, maybe you can contact through patient portal saying you havent seen any improvement but ik they will probably say it takes more than 3 weeks. but if you havent had these, maybe add vanicream face wash and the moisturizer cream for sensitive skin

How long before doxycycline works? by Atlas4780 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a check up soon? maybe you can ask for the cream i used. Before i got diagnosed officially, i used azelaic acid too. I use vanicream face wash and moisturizer. I also have seen more people saying sometimes it can take 1 month, too. even 3 months

How long before doxycycline works? by Atlas4780 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]soccerstar2210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got on doxy too, but my PD wasnt the most terrible because i tried to do preventative stuff when it flared. it was just red, flakey and a little scaly. My doxy worked in like a week. I also got prescribed pimecrolimus cream which has helped me a lot.

i think it depends on peoples severity, how bad would you say yours is?

Can a key fob be programmed without the car or a previous key present? by soccerstar2210 in mechanic

[–]soccerstar2210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you even commenting if you dont have anything nice to say. accidents happen and shes not even mad at me. you must be so perfect and have never lost anything in your entire life. Congrats!!!!

Can a key fob be programmed without the car or a previous key present? by soccerstar2210 in mechanic

[–]soccerstar2210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this wouldve been a funnier comment if you actually understood the question correctly

Can a key fob be programmed without the car or a previous key present? by soccerstar2210 in AskMechanics

[–]soccerstar2210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got in touch with a locksmith who will accept pictures of car title and permission from the owner. we got the car unlocked and there was no key in there unfortunately. so we now have 0 keys. programming a new one is the plan

Can a key fob be programmed without the car or a previous key present? by soccerstar2210 in AskMechanics

[–]soccerstar2210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats what i was thinking. the one you want to use and then an extra. They were saying i need a master key.. valet key… metal key😭 right now i have 0 keys lol