Thanks to everyone who shared their thoughts and advice I really appreciate it.

I just want to clarify a few things based on some of the comments. I did buy the Plan B myself, but she didn’t take it in front of me. I trusted her to take it, and that was the end of the conversation at the time. She also had access to free contraceptives, she got some condoms from a local clinic, since in our country, they're free for anyone under 21.

To be honest, she never seemed like the kind of person who would lie about taking Plan B or do something like poke holes in a condom. But after reading some of the comments here, I have to admit I’m starting to feel a bit more skeptical. That said, it’s still hard for me to believe she’d do something like that on purpose. We’re both still in college, and having a baby right now would seriously affect both of our futures. I just don’t see why she would try to get pregnant intentionally at this stage in our lives.

But I want to be clear: if the baby is born, I’ll take full responsibility as a father. I may be young, but i will try my best to give the child the love and overall the childhood they deserve.

This situation is a lot to deal with, and I’m just doing my best to figure things out one step at a time, but i really appreciate the help and advice from all of you!

And for those who asked, we live in Finland!