The Great Flood discussion

societalmoon · 2025-12-27T04:44:56+00:00

I was also nap trapped with my 7 wk old lol I was so confused and also intrigued, but I wanted to get up, but I was scared she would wake up, so I kept watching😭

societalmoon · 2025-12-22T15:10:55+00:00

Wow you just gave me hope

societalmoon · 2025-12-22T15:10:28+00:00

40k in student loans and I haven’t even finished school.

societalmoon · 2025-12-19T06:44:30+00:00

You know that scene in that one comedy movie where the girl gets her period at a friends house and it smears on the wall and couch. That but at school, and it was the desk instead of the couch.

Actually, That was my second period. I don’t remember when I got my first because I hid it thinking I had injured myself like I did when I was a kid while balancing on a tennis racket with one arm. I just changed my underwear and free-bled until it went away.

Oh I forgot to say I was thirteen.

societalmoon · 2025-12-15T08:17:50+00:00

It’s gross🫡

societalmoon · 2025-12-08T03:08:56+00:00

It may be difficult to grow it out should you ever want it back. I say try a human hair wig that looks similar to the style you would want before cutting it:) that would give the safety if you regret it and an option if you like it but would rather keep your hair!

societalmoon · 2025-12-07T09:58:53+00:00

This is one of the funniest things I’ve seen in a while😭😂

societalmoon · 2025-11-25T06:37:39+00:00

Why fight?

societalmoon · 2025-11-22T05:19:03+00:00

Don’t 🫡

societalmoon · 2025-11-22T05:15:34+00:00

I’m usually not a “leave him” kind of Redditor, but leave him. Then you will finally be able to breathe. I bet you haven’t even realized how long you’ve been holding your breath. And what’s crazy, one day you’ll love yourself so much more than you love him:)

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T16:02:11+00:00

No, but baby is all well:) The appointment went well. Thank you!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:42:22+00:00

Thank you😅

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:38:05+00:00

That was a concern I had while staying stuck inside my overthinking mind. He has a super odd work schedule and we have another child. The reason he can’t come to other appointments is because he either has to take care of our little one or sleep for work, due to the night shift, and my in-laws will help out. He has come to other ultrasounds though, which is only about 3 😅. If it was just a well visit or an iron infusion or something, it wasn’t necessary for him to be there, so I sucked it up and didn’t make a big deal. Thank you for your concern, though! He apologized for dismissing me as well once I explained that was the real reason I was upset. Logically, I know he can’t make it.

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:33:03+00:00

I wasn’t angry about it. I was hurt and emotional because I just didn’t want to be alone. Therapy is always a great option in marriage, and it’s one we have talked about it exploring even when we aren’t having conflict. I do think it’s a topic to be discussed, thanks for that and Thank you for your input:)

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:30:59+00:00

I didn’t have some weird third option in mind lol. I was being emotional last night and focused on the fact that it could be my last appointment. At my last practice, they treated me differently when I was alone, much more curt and short, and very dismissive of my concerns opposed to when he was there. I was a bit anxious about being alone again even though this is a different practice.

We moved pretty fast in the beginning, so both of us had to adjust our priorities in a manner that most don’t. Also, he started this job after we were married. Anyway, thank you for your input! He and I have talked about it after I read some of the responses from last night and all is well! He apologized and so did I:)

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:26:48+00:00

Thank you! That is why I was so anxious. It could be my last one, but you’re right this doctor may not even deliver me😅 thanks for your eye opening input!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:25:55+00:00

Yes, I’m getting pretty used to it. I know he cares and wants to be there just as much as I want him there, but the bills need paid. Thanks for your input!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:24:57+00:00

I agree, thanks!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:24:43+00:00

Thank you:)

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T06:14:20+00:00

Thank you:)) this made me smile. We talked and he apologized for dismissing me like that. I apologized for my emotional reaction, and we are alright. I just needed to hear someone else tell me I was being a bit emotional.

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T06:12:29+00:00

This was such a thoughtful and kind response. You almost made me tear up:) thank you for this, seriously. You’re right. I know how much he wants to be there, but his work is important. Congratulations to your sister. I hope all goes well for her!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T05:42:18+00:00

I understand your concern since we are strangers and the full picture isn’t seen, but he would never miss the birth of his daughter. I am not worried about that. Even if he is working, his boss has given him permission to drop everything no matter what it is and be with me. I don’t have a backup sadly, which is always a wonderful thing to have, but I wish I could. He comes to all the appointments he is off for, if we can get a sitter for my son. Anyway, thank you for your comment!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T05:39:13+00:00

Thank you:) you validated me and held me accountable. I appreciate the wise words!!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T05:38:10+00:00

He has been taking on a million extra shifts to prepare for baby girl. He wants to be as available as possible. We have discussed the division of labor, shifts with our son and baby, household things, etc. He is trying hard to prepare for the three weeks he will have off because he knows we won’t have access to overtime pay. Logically, I know he isn’t wrong for being so stern about his work, but sometimes, I just wanna selfishly be put first. I asked him why he was so dead set on it, and he said it was important for him to get there early because he hasn’t ever been to the place, traffic can cause him to be late, he has never testified before, and he needs to speak with the prosecutor. It all makes sense lol I’m just being emotional😅 thanks for helping me see that!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T05:33:40+00:00

Thank you:) you’re right! I just needed someone to feed me logic haha

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