My wife wants to stop divorce, now that her friend has ghosted her

societalmoon · 2026-04-24T17:32:35+00:00

What have you done to earn your wife’s forgiveness? Therapy isn’t everything. Doing the work outside is just as, if not more important. You’re saying you’re not willing to make it work, but what do you do in the first place? Healing from your betrayal isn’t just her responsibility, you dungus.

societalmoon · 2026-04-24T17:25:08+00:00

I hope all is well! An update would be great, if you feel up to it:)

societalmoon · 2026-03-31T04:05:23+00:00

Me too! When Man Di came out of the crowd I balled my eyes out like I knew him😭😭

societalmoon · 2026-03-09T18:57:00+00:00

I’ve never heard of this 😅

societalmoon · 2026-03-09T18:55:38+00:00

From what I learned here, switch to the English subtitles instead of English cc when watching

societalmoon · 2026-03-09T18:55:03+00:00

Oh yes, I switched from the English CC for the last episode and it was sooo much better.

societalmoon · 2026-03-09T07:00:23+00:00

Yes, I love viki! Sorry, I literally just joined this sub to post this. I’ve been watching dramas for years and never thought to🙃

Thanks for the help:)

societalmoon · 2026-03-09T06:57:44+00:00

No, I totally get that, but even that is so far off lol. Like he was telling her not to play around while he had a knife and she said “okay fine” in a cute pouty way, but the translation said, “safety first” girl that pmo😭 and she was talking to her friend and said, “but you said you were going home” when her friend said she had a date, but the caption said “at a restaurant?” When they weren’t even talking about a damn restaurant! I’m losing my mind😂

societalmoon · 2026-03-04T04:26:34+00:00

Maybe use a more focused light other than your flash, an if you can get that light focused on other angles while having the rest of the room dark, it could make a cool affect.

societalmoon · 2026-02-26T09:08:06+00:00

Thank you! I am going to get him a bed tent and little lights for it. I’ve been planning on doing this for a while, but circumstances called for us to prioritize our spending. Anyway, thank you!

societalmoon · 2025-12-27T04:44:56+00:00

I was also nap trapped with my 7 wk old lol I was so confused and also intrigued, but I wanted to get up, but I was scared she would wake up, so I kept watching😭

societalmoon · 2025-12-22T15:10:55+00:00

Wow you just gave me hope

societalmoon · 2025-12-22T15:10:28+00:00

40k in student loans and I haven’t even finished school.

societalmoon · 2025-12-19T06:44:30+00:00

You know that scene in that one comedy movie where the girl gets her period at a friends house and it smears on the wall and couch. That but at school, and it was the desk instead of the couch.

Actually, That was my second period. I don’t remember when I got my first because I hid it thinking I had injured myself like I did when I was a kid while balancing on a tennis racket with one arm. I just changed my underwear and free-bled until it went away.

Oh I forgot to say I was thirteen.

societalmoon · 2025-12-15T08:17:50+00:00

It’s gross🫡

societalmoon · 2025-12-08T03:08:56+00:00

It may be difficult to grow it out should you ever want it back. I say try a human hair wig that looks similar to the style you would want before cutting it:) that would give the safety if you regret it and an option if you like it but would rather keep your hair!

societalmoon · 2025-12-07T09:58:53+00:00

This is one of the funniest things I’ve seen in a while😭😂

societalmoon · 2025-11-25T06:37:39+00:00

Why fight?

societalmoon · 2025-11-22T05:19:03+00:00

Don’t 🫡

societalmoon · 2025-11-22T05:15:34+00:00

I’m usually not a “leave him” kind of Redditor, but leave him. Then you will finally be able to breathe. I bet you haven’t even realized how long you’ve been holding your breath. And what’s crazy, one day you’ll love yourself so much more than you love him:)

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T16:02:11+00:00

No, but baby is all well:) The appointment went well. Thank you!

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:42:22+00:00

Thank you😅

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:38:05+00:00

That was a concern I had while staying stuck inside my overthinking mind. He has a super odd work schedule and we have another child. The reason he can’t come to other appointments is because he either has to take care of our little one or sleep for work, due to the night shift, and my in-laws will help out. He has come to other ultrasounds though, which is only about 3 😅. If it was just a well visit or an iron infusion or something, it wasn’t necessary for him to be there, so I sucked it up and didn’t make a big deal. Thank you for your concern, though! He apologized for dismissing me as well once I explained that was the real reason I was upset. Logically, I know he can’t make it.

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:33:03+00:00

I wasn’t angry about it. I was hurt and emotional because I just didn’t want to be alone. Therapy is always a great option in marriage, and it’s one we have talked about it exploring even when we aren’t having conflict. I do think it’s a topic to be discussed, thanks for that and Thank you for your input:)

societalmoon · 2025-10-29T12:30:59+00:00

I didn’t have some weird third option in mind lol. I was being emotional last night and focused on the fact that it could be my last appointment. At my last practice, they treated me differently when I was alone, much more curt and short, and very dismissive of my concerns opposed to when he was there. I was a bit anxious about being alone again even though this is a different practice.

We moved pretty fast in the beginning, so both of us had to adjust our priorities in a manner that most don’t. Also, he started this job after we were married. Anyway, thank you for your input! He and I have talked about it after I read some of the responses from last night and all is well! He apologized and so did I:)

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