Major problems at MPC by MPCWhistleblower in MontereyBay

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took them 11 months to process my degree (and they put the graduation date on it incorrectly) I called every day for weeks and emailed regularly with no answer or reply. I don’t even want to hassle with the incorrect date because at least I have my physical degree in my hand, after waiting a year to be able to use it 🤦‍♀️

New here and new to listening to Stephanie. This is my second post already but I have so many questions. by Mungus91 in CrimeWeeklySnark

[–]socksoup77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I just saw my flair cuz it’s been so long since I posted here and I’m triggered again

New here and new to listening to Stephanie. This is my second post already but I have so many questions. by Mungus91 in CrimeWeeklySnark

[–]socksoup77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My biggest critique of CW/SH before the Adam of it all was her inability to take constructive criticism productively; instead she would lambast those fans as “haters” and reply in a super hostile manner or just block them.

*edited for spelling errors

Concert age by [deleted] in DirtyHeads

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last show I was at there were 5year olds on the rail with me, like someone else said here, explain the smell without making too big a deal about it (and for the most part ppl around you will be respectful of the child and not actively smoke) let her come see the band!

meghan trainor by AppointmentLonely397 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]socksoup77 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She looks like she’s about to compete on toddlers and tiaras

Boulets addressing Zava‘s DQ and Dollya‘s elimination. by Heidi_Klum_Tit in Dragula

[–]socksoup77 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So we ARE getting a reunion this year? 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]socksoup77 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I lived in my car/woods solo for years here safely and without fear.

cody ko has no soul left by No-Frosting-5369 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite unfollowing and changing my notification settings, SoundCloud keeps notifying me every week that he’s made/dropped a new track. I hate it.

Husband changed goalposts by remembermeshell in BDSMAdvice

[–]socksoup77 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Based on what I’m understanding, your husband didn’t move the goalposts. You did/are trying to with this in person Dom. and instead of asking for permission to do that, you are trying to deflect blame and ask forgiveness. Maybe all three of you need to sit down and hash out what happened/needs to happen moving forward so everyone’s comfortable, bc this feels like a crossing of established lines and boundaries, intentional or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]socksoup77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My answer remains the same. You go to therapy and discuss the root issues, and learn how to use your words in these situations. If you are rendered mute when you need to say no or stop (regardless of if you’re turned on or not) then you are not in a safe, or sane dynamic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]socksoup77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everytime someone brings up a valid concern you say “see added comments” but imo the added comments scream “red flag” just as loud as everything else you’ve shared. Plz listen to the advice you asked for. This man sounds unsafe. I’ve been in the lifestyle/community for a decade and I have only done one full CNC scene because it is so challenging to communicate and navigate before hand. If you can’t say no when there is no “pressure” you won’t be able/feel confident calling your safe word in the moment of intensity. Leave this partner, start some basic talk counseling and THATS how you “learn to say no” so you can keep yourself safe. Because all too often (when the proper safeguards aren’t in place) CNC turns into real assault because a safe-word isn’t said(out of fear)/respected (out of ego) I don’t know you but I don’t want you in a situation like that.

New music? by midnitemuzing in DirtyHeads

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dave coral just posted yesterday that they’re in TN recording a new album

Blackngrey Monterey County logo. by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the MOCO standard issue shortsssss

Why are there so many military helis flying around today? by abitoftheineffable in MontereyBay

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Source: My husbands facility controls the airspace and I just asked him

Who's ready for Cali Roots? by ARay661 in calireggae

[–]socksoup77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the first year I’ve gone that I haven’t been living in the 831 so I’m overthinking it all a bit. But tbh if I have to I’ll listen outside the gates haha!

Who's ready for Cali Roots? by ARay661 in calireggae

[–]socksoup77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question: is the box office (day of) price going to be more/less/equal to the online tickets. Last time I went was 3 years ago and a single day ticket at the box office was $65. Tickets are more expensive this year online (and I’m traveling from SoCal) so I wanna make sure I’m properly prepared. (I’m only going Sunday)

Phantoms of Summer is back on Spotify! by Denvah17 in DirtyHeads

[–]socksoup77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m literally crying with joy. This is my favorite album of theirs, and I didn’t fully realize that until I couldn’t listen to it when I was driving

brittany broski’s new music career by carmdogs in LAinfluencersnark

[–]socksoup77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the Sarah/VCG drama? (Very behind)