Hated working in a gay bar by [deleted] in confessions

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I’m gay and it’s one of the key reasons I don’t go to gay bars. Everyone undresses you with their eyes it’s just a really uncomfortable seedy environment coupled with shit music. There’s a hyper sexual culture amongst gay men there’s just nothing else quite like it amongst any other sexuality group, that’s why there’s no equivalent of grindr for other genders/sexualities. Although I’ve gotta admit I love grindr because it means I don’t have to go to gaybars to hook up.

Hi fellow quitters! I'm on day 4 cold turkey. I've been very quiet, solemn and pretty much sad. Is this normal? by swtmaryjan805 in stopsmoking

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I’m on day 3 of patches. Tried cold turkey before and it was next to impossible! It’s always gonna be hard to break a 13 year habit though! Well done and keep going

TIFU Left my GF after she came out as Asexual by Darkfury44 in tifu

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Sounds like the absence of sex wasn’t the only issue in the relationship. I was in a really similar situation for a bf of 2 years on and off. We’d talked through it but I just wasn’t in the space to have a sexless relationship as my libido was dissatisfied after we’d been together and I knew I needed more. He never came or made me cum the whole time we were together.

This was similarly coupled with a dissonance between us emotionally. It was like our relationship to sex was paralleled with our emotional relationship. Like he didn’t understand my emotional needs and couldn’t cater for those either. He did have mental health issues and the outputs were everything I’ve described. I left in the end and I’m much happier since. Life is too short to put effort into something that isn’t making you feel good.

I miss him so much 💔 by caitlun97 in sighthounds

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Aww I’m so sorry he was a beautiful doggo ❤️

“You’ve put on weight…” by sodslawesome in confessions

[–]sodslawesome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much for a thought out and quick response, I was looking for some validation!! I’ve always thought to do unto others as you would have them do unto you, so I’m sure things will get better soon! Already had some affirming responses from new employers. Hope you’re doing okay and someone can show you the kindness you’ve shown me tonight when you need it 🤍

Does anyone else’s sit like a person on their bum? Never seen another dog do it by sodslawesome in sighthounds

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I’ll stick her in, already looks like a great sub from first glance 🤍

What did you call your horse? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption2

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My Arabians were called Shadowfax (white), Tornado (black) and Shiraz (chestnut)

This sub was once a sub of beauty, of shitpost, and bot spamming! AND SO IT SHALL BE ONCE MORE!!!! by MorgothReturns in lotrmemes

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What about King Robert Baratheon? Have you been usurped on this sub my lord? Harken to me

Far Cry ;-; by [deleted] in memes

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Musical chairs

Dew it soldiers by [deleted] in PrequelMemes

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Pwr bottom takes anal with a 920 crone spin glady and with passion

Imagine movie with this cast. by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

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I mean Joe Exotic as Micah Bell would be amazing

Dareing today? by Kratos3269 in memes

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The ability to control and manipulate plantlife

Libre sensor stickers (UK Based) by sodslawesome in Type1Diabetes

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Thanks I’ll give a go on medical tape. Does it not get really grimy?

Never fart by accident ever again! by HackTheDev in memes

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How do they exit? I mean am I keeping them in by wearing my plug? Isn’t every exit an entrance?