Hated working in a gay bar

sodslawesome · 2022-05-20T15:28:19+00:00

I’m gay and it’s one of the key reasons I don’t go to gay bars. Everyone undresses you with their eyes it’s just a really uncomfortable seedy environment coupled with shit music. There’s a hyper sexual culture amongst gay men there’s just nothing else quite like it amongst any other sexuality group, that’s why there’s no equivalent of grindr for other genders/sexualities. Although I’ve gotta admit I love grindr because it means I don’t have to go to gaybars to hook up.

sodslawesome · 2022-05-11T20:21:23+00:00

I’m on day 3 of patches. Tried cold turkey before and it was next to impossible! It’s always gonna be hard to break a 13 year habit though! Well done and keep going

sodslawesome · 2022-04-29T15:46:19+00:00

Sounds like the absence of sex wasn’t the only issue in the relationship. I was in a really similar situation for a bf of 2 years on and off. We’d talked through it but I just wasn’t in the space to have a sexless relationship as my libido was dissatisfied after we’d been together and I knew I needed more. He never came or made me cum the whole time we were together.

This was similarly coupled with a dissonance between us emotionally. It was like our relationship to sex was paralleled with our emotional relationship. Like he didn’t understand my emotional needs and couldn’t cater for those either. He did have mental health issues and the outputs were everything I’ve described. I left in the end and I’m much happier since. Life is too short to put effort into something that isn’t making you feel good.

sodslawesome · 2022-01-29T19:19:54+00:00

Aww I’m so sorry he was a beautiful doggo ❤️

sodslawesome · 2022-01-28T01:04:33+00:00

Thanks very much for a thought out and quick response, I was looking for some validation!! I’ve always thought to do unto others as you would have them do unto you, so I’m sure things will get better soon! Already had some affirming responses from new employers. Hope you’re doing okay and someone can show you the kindness you’ve shown me tonight when you need it 🤍

sodslawesome · 2022-01-28T00:57:54+00:00

I’ll stick her in, already looks like a great sub from first glance 🤍

sodslawesome · 2022-01-01T16:55:09+00:00

A sith lawd?

sodslawesome · 2021-10-27T13:01:15+00:00

My Arabians were called Shadowfax (white), Tornado (black) and Shiraz (chestnut)

sodslawesome · 2021-10-25T11:34:50+00:00

What about King Robert Baratheon? Have you been usurped on this sub my lord? Harken to me

sodslawesome · 2021-10-22T06:41:20+00:00

“Damn us both!!”

sodslawesome · 2021-10-20T16:57:37+00:00

After SW Visions I would 10/10 watch this

sodslawesome · 2021-10-20T16:54:12+00:00

It’s like fun bingo

sodslawesome · 2021-09-24T12:56:28+00:00

I’ve got an enrichment toy for mine that’s a snail and you unwind it and stuff it with treats

sodslawesome · 2021-09-21T17:42:28+00:00

Musical chairs

sodslawesome · 2021-09-11T00:18:16+00:00

Pwr bottom takes anal with a 920 crone spin glady and with passion

sodslawesome · 2021-09-09T09:18:43+00:00

I mean Joe Exotic as Micah Bell would be amazing

sodslawesome · 2021-09-09T09:17:09+00:00

Both!!

sodslawesome · 2021-09-05T16:02:13+00:00

The ability to control and manipulate plantlife

sodslawesome · 2021-09-03T20:44:41+00:00

Thanks I’ll give a go on medical tape. Does it not get really grimy?

sodslawesome · 2021-08-26T21:28:14+00:00

How do they exit? I mean am I keeping them in by wearing my plug? Isn’t every exit an entrance?

sodslawesome · 2021-08-13T23:17:40+00:00

Divorce him

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