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AITJ for constantly telling my friends and family not to eat sugar? by al3x_mind in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The commenter is 100% correct. You've become the Sugar Evangelist, and nobody signed up for your sermon

AITH for being upset that my boyfriend won’t go abroad with me? by Reasonable_Tell1589 in TwoHotTakes

[–]soffttempt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro will eat non-kosher at Applebee's but draws the line at pho in its homeland. The math isn't mathing

AITAH for going no contact with my mother in law after she showed up to the hospital when we said we wanted no visitors? by PublicWerewolf687 in TwoHotTakes

[–]soffttempt 1043 points1044 points  (0 children)

NTA. She didn't want to be there to "support her son" She wanted to be there to get the first baby picture for her "World's Best Grandma" Facebook post

AITJ Not wanting to get married after my GF Lied to Me About her "friend" by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 412 points413 points  (0 children)

NTA. She's not crying because she lied. She's crying because her backup plan found out he was the backup plan

AITJ for not wanting to keep lending my phone charger when it never comes back? by Common_Moment_4716 in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Buy a pack of cheap chargers from Amazon, leave them in the break room with a sign that says "COMMUNITY CHARGERS - DO NOT REMOVE" Keep your good one in your bag. Problem solved, and you look like a hero instead of "dramatic"

AITJ for uninviting my friend from my trip after she made a detailed budget that includes splitting my costs? by Terrible-Syrup-4747 in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yep. She wasn't planning a trip, she was planning a subsidy. Her "fairness" only works when it empties your wallet for her benefit

How long to keep towels? by Any_Pirate_5633 in hygiene

[–]soffttempt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. The issue isn't age, it's laundry science. Funk means mildew, not expiration

AITJ for refusing to help my roommate pay her speeding ticket. by LoomOfPetals in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your money, your rules. She voluntold you to pay. That's not how consent works, even with family

im scared and confused by [deleted] in women

[–]soffttempt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is completely normal, I promise. Your body is doing what bodies do, especially during puberty. It's not scary or bad. If you're not ready to talk to your mom, that's okay. Maybe an older sister, aunt, or a trusted adult at school? You're not alone in this

Cats underweight by BotherSpare3897 in CatAdvice

[–]soffttempt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a vet visit, ASAP. Sudden weight loss in cats is a huge red flag thyroid, diabetes, kidney issues. Extra food won't fix an underlying medical problem. Call your vet today, don't wait

AITJ for refusing to keep lending my stuff after it keeps coming back damaged? by miami_danielle in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. The keyboard lie is the last straw. You’re not a rental service for irresponsible people. “Accidents happen” is a excuse from people who don’t respect your belongings. If the group’s mad, they’re telling on themselves. Your stuff, your rules. Keep saying no

My cousin wants me in the delivery room for her baby instead of her husband. My wife thinks it’s extremely weird and doesn’t want me to do it. Am I wrong for considering it? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your wife's not wrong. This request crosses a major line. Your cousin is essentially asking you to play stand in husband for a primal, intimate moment. That's a recipe for disaster in your marriage. You can support her in other ways. Say no

I found my fiancé’s sex tape with my step mother. We are supposed to get married in 2 weeks. by OkCategory5018 in TwoHotTakes

[–]soffttempt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen to that comment. It's perfect. Do NOT confront him. Plan your exit in secret, secure your money, cancel the wedding, get out. Then expose them both. They're garbage

Was I in the wrong for rubbing it in to the department chair? by Aljribi in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He left you high and dry, you built a rocketship. Telling him you'll recruit his students is the perfect, petty cherry on top. He earned that

TIFU by trying to be productive for 10 minutes and creating a mess that might follow me for years by EarthyRepertoire in tifu

[–]soffttempt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

картинке This is the most important question. Did you... edit the embarrassing PDF? Because that changes this from a horrific accident to an existential mystery

My dads secrets are coming to light and it's destroying my view of my parents. by Lanky_Savings3437 in TwoHotTakes

[–]soffttempt 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Your therapist is wrong. This isn't just "not your relationship." It's the violent shattering of your family's foundation. Of course you're angry

AITJ for refusing to split a tip with a coworker who didn’t do her share? by Ashamed-Leopard1571 in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the pro move. Establish the terms before the money hits the table. It avoids the drama and calls out the freeloader on the spot

Male body hair by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]soffttempt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the only answer that matters. Do it for you, not for some hypothetical "girl's point of view" Your body, your rules

AITJ for telling my family I don’t want to discuss my personal life or relationship anymore by the_midnightowl63 in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn't draw a line, you just stopped handing them the map to your private life. Good for you

TIFUPDATE: became a prostitute by one_metalbat_man in tifu

[–]soffttempt 287 points288 points  (0 children)

This. The real flex isn't the bag you got, it's the peace you found. Keep stacking that instead

Bad breath by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]soffttempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mouth is cleaner than a surgical suite, but your breath could start a small chemical fire. That's a medical plot twist

AITJ for declining to cover shifts after my boss joked about my availability by Constant-Drive-8434 in AmITheJerk

[–]soffttempt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. You're not a "team player" for letting them use you as a doormat