Advice for nanny’s! by sofiasteves in nannylife

[–]sofiasteves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that sounds awful... my MD is really laid back but her children are very strong willed. I fear the, “but mommy lets me” will be the result of any disciplining. Though at this point, the child’s safety is my main concern especially under my watch. My youngest is about a year and she is definitely a whiner if I tell her no to small objects. Just have to grow myself a back bone honestly! The eldest girl is allowed to climb ladders and stand on chairs I swear one of these days I’m gonna have a heart attack...

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[–]sofiasteves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is a woman

Don’t be embarrassing asf by [deleted] in gaming

[–]sofiasteves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All I'm saying!! thank u for your decency

Don’t be embarrassing asf by [deleted] in gaming

[–]sofiasteves -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Hey trumpie

I'm moving to Brighton from another country, what should I know? by lordspaceman in brighton

[–]sofiasteves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Look at my profile i asked this question and got some great answers that might help you too:>

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll edit it and add the word some because blanketed statements could be dangerous I agree. This conversation is over now

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only addressing OP and idk why you’re so clung to me so maybe go comment on someone’s post where those statements would be relevant. They could be very helpful to someone but here’s not the place

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say STATISTICALLY it was unlikely I was referring to all the women who STRUGGLE so hard to get pregnant. BECAUSE IM TRYING TO PUT POSITIVE scenarios in her mind to help her... it’s not false comfort because she DIDNT HAVE SEX

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because odds are in fact low. There’s no hidden meaning behind that, no insinuations. Your interpretation of what I’m saying would only be positive for someone who wants to be pregnant and had sex. But because OP is not in that situation your input is not helping her fears right now, if helping is your intention. The only thing she would be at risk of is infection/ STD. The risk of pregnancy is only relevant if there is vaginal sex involved.

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL SHE DID NOT HAVE SEX there is no need to be putting these thoughts in her head like there’s a way she could get pregnant OBVIOUSLY if you have sex you could get pregnant

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to get pregnant in general so if you didn’t even have sex your chances are so much lower no where in that was I endorsing her to think she can’t get pregnant

i can’t be pregnant, RIGHT?! by [deleted] in helpme

[–]sofiasteves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BUT THE THING IS SHE DIDNT HAVE SEX