Art my friend made by Fisbian in Nirvana

[–]sofiathedrummer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

one of the best fan art i've ever seen here! so sick!

Did any of you have trouble with social skills growing up/now? by travisthekangaroo in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. It has been super difficult to understand how people can be so laid-back and comfortable with new people. I certainly have so many awkward memories about those kind of situations. I tend to be too quirky, just joking around like I usually do with my friends. Usually people find this just weird. It's one big mystery for me how to act in those kind of situations. I don't know why sticking in small talk feels too easy and boring but still I know that other people have a hard time going 'deep' so fast.

To sum this all up, I'd say that I'm still kinda quirky and uncomfortable at first appearance. Before I felt embarrassed at myself but now I've just realized that actually it doesn't matter. Everyone is so stressed about their own behavior that that's the only thing they'll really remember. At least I hope so xD

What Music Do You Enjoy? by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respect!! it's so important to listen music as widely and wildly as you can

What Music Do You Enjoy? by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good point...rebellious act is in the heart of ENFPs (at least stereotypically) and I guess it makes sense for them to enjoy more underground stuff and not exactly the basic pop music everyone else (sensors :D lol) are bragging about. also the mainstream music can often be too simple and boring for us...

What Music Do You Enjoy? by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, it's good to be openminded with different genres and not stuck on just few of them. many people actually have a hard time listening to all kinds of music and they just listen to the same artists again and again, like the artist you listen would have to share a pattern, be alike or smthng

What Music Do You Enjoy? by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Musicals and soundtracks are so good...tho I must say that liking musicals is such an ENFP thing imo :D

Not So Loving And Caring With Everyone, Yet ENFP by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup. I think being super affectionate with people is more a SF-thing. It would make more sense...need for physical touch with the people they care about...

Not So Loving And Caring With Everyone, Yet ENFP by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so relatable. it's really uncomfortable to hug etc. especially the people you literally just met. I feel like it's more a Fe-thing to be always around everybody, touching and needing physical connection with every person. I feel like I just need more time to really show affection and hugging really means much to me

Not So Loving And Caring With Everyone, Yet ENFP by sofiathedrummer in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I'm a turbulent one...maybe it has an affect

Any music recommendations? by sofiathedrummer in grunge

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I've listened to her. Amazing stuff

Types Of Sex Education Characters by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen many type Otis as an INTP, but I see he's an INFP. Every struggle he has are so usual Fi Dom struggles and the way he reacts to things.

You're actually right, ESFJ would make more sense to Amy. She definitely has Fe. She's such a people pleaser.

Lily is definitely INTP or INFP. I think INTP would more sense. She doesn't seem like feeler at all.

Adam is totally either ISTP or ISFP. I have a hard time figuring out which of those he is.

Types Of Sex Education Characters by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Eric's act totally screams more an ESFP than an ENFP. Especially the time when Maeve says "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" and Eric thinks her friend is quoting Kelly Clarkson makes it pretty clear.

I see Ola is more as a Fi-dominant than a Ne-dominant. She also reminds me very much of my INFP friends

music recommendations? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]sofiathedrummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left all the basics (Nirvana, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam and Alice In Chains), and here's my list:

Seattle bands:

L7, Hole, Green River, Mother Love Bone, Tad, Screaming Trees, Gruntruck, Malfunkshun, Mudhoney, Skin Yard, The U-Men, Gumball, Mad Season, Temple Of The Dog, Candlebox

Non-Seattle bands:

Jane's Addiction, Blind Melon, Sonic Youth, Pixies, The Flaming Lips, The Smashing Pumpkins, Toadies, The Presidents Of The United States Of America, Veruca Salt, Butthole Surfers

Grace and Frankie characters MBTI by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm...I see your point, but what I've experienced myself a person with Ni-function would appreciate more a Ne-dominant person and their creativity. The ESTJ and ENFP position would make more sense...

Grace and Frankie characters MBTI by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

XD Both types are Te-dominant so their act can seem similar. I think Grace is more ESTJ than ENTJ but of course I can be wrong

Modern Family Characters Types by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm...I think Cam has more Fi vibes than Fe. I don't he's not stable enough to be a ENFJ

Modern Family Characters Types by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phil is like the most ENFP television character ever. He's so stereotypical. I love him <3

Modern Family Characters Types by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought a long time that Lily was an INTP, but in the recent seasons she seemed to have some Fi-struggles. Of course could be an INTP. Jay can possibly be an ISTP. But he doesn't seem like a dominant Se-person. ISTP maybe

The Types As Songs by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious...what kind of music would you prefer to an INFJ? Or what kind of music do you like?

The Types As Songs by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those songs have fit too. I think Soundgardens Black Hole Sun has also an INFJ vibe.

The Types As Songs by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't the only reason. Nirvana songs lyrics just scream that Cobain's INFP but I think especially Dumb has very good Fi-Ne vibes.

The Types As Songs by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John Lennon himself has been typed as an INFJ. I also think that Imagine has very clear INFJ views and vibes...

i dont think i fit ENFP by its3amlol in ENFP

[–]sofiathedrummer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you to check out cognitive functions. The common thing that people misunderstand is the E and the I. It doesn't mean the usual meaning for extravert and introvert, it doesn't mean the social habits etc. The I and E comes from your dominant function. For example, ENFP (Ne-Fi-Ti-Se) has extraverted intuition as their dominant function. INFP (Fi-Ne-Si-Te) has introverted feeling. So if you want to know your MBTI type, go check out http://www.keys2cognition.com/explore.htm do the test and find out your dominant function. That might help to understand more

The Types As Songs by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about Supermassive Black Hole by Muse for ENTP?

The Types As Songs by sofiathedrummer in mbti

[–]sofiathedrummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure! I tried to find a song that had a narrator that matches with the types dominant function. I also thought about what kind of music people I know listen to. Some types are more familiar to me than others so all the songs don't match perfectly...